Expert Relationship Advice from John Gray, bestselling author of "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus."

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We all have such busy lives that we tend to forget the things that are important to us. We wait until there is time... But there never really is time, is there?

Martians need help planning romance because they tend to focus on work and family responsibilities. When these obligations end they seek to recharge in their cave. Their ability to focus helps them to be successful in the business world but is forged out of focusing on one thing at a time. While they are wonderful providers, contributors, and parents, many men forget the importance of romance in their relationships.

Venusians, on the other hand, don't always need help planning romance but, because of multiple responsibilities, they can forget how to show their partner how they feel. Venusians typically focus on the needs of others and tend to neglect themselves. Additionally, Venusians often feel that their partner should plan the romance and report that, "If I have to ask for it, it isn't romantic."

Equally, both Martians and Venusians have a desire to plan something big to show how much we care. But, because it can take so much time we tend to feel overwhelmed or frustrated and give up on the whole thing. This can be our biggest mistake of all. Remember, the little things add up, plus it's much easier to get in the habit of doing small things. This can make you feel like you're on your honeymoon all over again.

This month we are sharing with you ideas sent in from our readers. We also want to encourage you to be romantic in your own way. Click on the links in the calendar to send us your romantic ideas to be posted at a later date.

Remember, romance doesn't have to be expensive or perfect-it only requires thought and effort!

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