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  • vickp
    vickp
    Mid life crisis.........or is it over ? please help
    Hi i am new and need advice, i am devastated and confused and don't know what to do, my partner and i have had 3 wonderful years together, not one cross word or argument, then he started a new job a few months ago and also turned 51, he started going out with the lads from work, most are younger and single, he started drinking (he does not drink) and staying out later and more often...you know...

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    vickp vickp
    - Thanks mixbreed, Well things are still the same, he was on afternoon shift all week, but finished early frid i felt sure he would go out but he stayed in, we went to the football sat, he did go out sat night, came home at 3 instead of 8/9 am, went shopping sunday, he popped to see his daughter sun, came home with a take-away, pretty normal, apart from the sat night, came home from work yesterday ...

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  • pomelo
    pomelo
    My boyfriend broke up with me 2 months ago after 10 years of relationship
    Hi: I am very sad, my ex boyfriend 2 months ago told me that his feelings for me have had changed and he told me that he needed to broke up with me. He was very sad and very sorry but he told me that. After 10 years of relationship it was very shocking for me and for all the people who were around us. He was very depressed but I didn´t know why, the last 6 months were very bad, he was ...

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  • Seeking clarity
    Seeking clarity
    He buys me a house....then runs - HELP!
    What do you do about that??? Yes, we were dating for a year and a half, my kids and I needed to move and he bought us a house so that we would never have to worry about moving again. We are both 50 now and he decided something felt different and he bolted. We live so close we can throw a stone to each others home. Buying a house seemed like a commitment to us. I expected nothing more. What to thi...

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    Nyla Nyla
    - Ok lovey I will check :)

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  • Heavy
    Heavy
    Stunned and at a loss.
    Hi all, I have been in the most amazing relationship with my girlfriend for the last 14 months. We meet through a friend and we hit it off straight away. But we didn't start our relationship until 9 months after we started hanging out as she was not ready for a relationship. She has 2 children from a previous relationship that ended badly (he cheated) and I also have 2 from my broken marria...

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    Heavy Heavy
    - So today I have had a barage of text msg from her. It started out with I'm cancelling a bunch of laybys I can not afford them. The I asked if I could catch up with her this afternoon. What for?? Why?? We have nothing to talk about anymore. I said you have shut me out I'm trying to be your friend, friend don't shut each other out they talk. Wel I get back with I'm struggling big ...

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  • John Gray
    John Gray
    How long will he be in his "cave"?
    Probably the most asked question I get is "How long will he be in his cave?" Also... "We share the same bed but I don't think he knows I am there." "Why does he put me on a pedestal one moment , then drop me to last on his list at other times?" "My husband has male PMS." This is actually a very normal process that most men experience in intimate r...

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    Cliffordmary Cliffordmary
    - My name is CLIFFORD MARY from USA .I am here to give testimony on how I got my husband back. My husband left me for no reason 3 years ago. He moved in with another woman, I felt like killing myself, my life became very bitter and sorrowful. Then 1 day, a friend of mine told me about a great spell caster that is very good and, he said he gave him some lucky numbers that he played in a lotter...

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  • Lotus
    Lotus
    What to do....will he come out of his cave?
    I met my boyfriend 8 months ago. We’re both in our late forties and both came from difficult divorces. He divorced six years ago and I two years ago. In these six years he had never had a relationship. It went well immediately; felt good…After difficult times we we felt some positive energy again. We met each other’s children and the children met each other, we were very caref...

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    MixedBreed MixedBreed
    - Hey, Stephanyjml, I sent you a private message about 5 days ago. Are you ok?

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  • ddee0208
    ddee0208
    I'm so clueless, is this the Cave thing...I'm about to dump him!
    I've been with this guy about 3 months, things are great, we don't fight, he's fun, we have a great time, I let him meet my 6/7 year old boys, they love him and I haven't had really to much to complain about. I thought things were headed in a fairly serious direction. My only issue is, he's horrible about answering his cell phone...horrible. He's really busy at work duri...

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    Harmony Seeker Harmony Seeker
    - MixedBreed is right. What she said has hit me. I feel like lately, since I have been so emotional and overwhelmed that I have not had any self assurance and I'm sure my guy could tell. Proably pushed him further into his cave. I do know that he will be back and ready for me when he has sorted through his problems. I hope I didn't mess anything up in the last few weeks. Keep doing what you are doing Ddee, I think you are on the right track

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  • angeleyes153
    angeleyes153
    Uncertainty Stage of Dating
    I have a very legitimate question I would like some insights on! Now that we have some men joining us in the forum, perhaps they'd like to offer their insights to this as well. During the “Uncertainty Stage” of dating. What happens when you break a man's rubber band? The question is this: Is the relationship lost forever? Just curious......

    Forum posted ago
    london london
    - Trust me on this: if you respect his need to complete space at this time, and uphold your self-esteem in the process, he will take note. This is one of those very clear cut times when yes, he likely just cannot be in a relationship because of the emotional output he is already dealing with.

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  • Nyla
    Nyla
    Letting go!
    It has been 12 weeks now since me n my guy broke up! I hear from him after I get intouch with him. He always asks how I am. But then nothing! SHOULD I just give up on MOVE ON! I love him and miss him but now I feel for my sanity to maybe let him go now! :(Edited by Nyla on Sep 21 2014 4:17AM

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    Nyla Nyla
    - That's it Angel exactly what I'm doing Hun :)

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  • RajPatel0929
    RajPatel0929
    ADD
    http://www.marsvenus.com/blog/john-gray/adhd-add-part-1-understanding-attention-deficit-hyperactivity-disorder Generally speaking, naturopath doctors suggest the dosage amounts below for children. If it is for an adult, then double the amounts listed below: 1 capsuleSuper Minerals2 times a day 1 capsuleLithium Orotate2 times a day 1 capsuleGrape Seed Extract2 times a day (total 300mg a day) ...

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  • Harmony Seeker
    Harmony Seeker
    It's a positive/good sign
    if a guy reaches out to you while he's in his cave? even for just a few hours? Just need some reasurace

    Forum posted ago
    Harmony Seeker Harmony Seeker
    - haha. that may actually be a good idea.you can send yourself feeling letters :O

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  • sbeesalyer
    sbeesalyer
    Why did he pull away?
    This is a bit long. Please help! Up until 2 weeks ago I was in the best relationship I have ever been in. We both treatedone anothervery well and never disrespected each other. We had 2 fights total but would calmly communicate and work through them. We were together for 9 months. He is 24 and I am 33. The only reason why I went for him in the first place was because he is an "old soul"...

    Forum posted ago
    Harmony Seeker Harmony Seeker
    - Hello Sbeesalyer I will private messagee you, but my guy and i were never in an exclusive relationship. We both wanted to be but he pulled away as he went into stage 2 of dating, he is stilll in his cave though Edited by Harmony Seeker on Sep 21 2014 5:37AM

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  • a_davidson08@hotmail.com
    a_davidson08@hotmail.com
    Help! is he done or not.
    Me and my ex were together for a year and hlaf. We are in college and were apart all summer. I have been through alot and have trust issues. I have started fights and I was just being immature and about a month ago he ended it. We still talked and he would always say no hes done. I have now seen him everyday since saturday. We dont hang out long but we do watch some tv shows and just hang out. We ...

    Forum posted ago
    MixedBreed MixedBreed
    - Hi, a! It sounds to me like your guy just got fed up. He may still want to be friends, but doesn't want the drama that goes with being in a relationship with you. You said that you have issues from the past. I would suggest that you read "Mars and Venus Starting Over". John Gray has done an excellent job in that book, helping people work through their buried feelings from past experi...

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  • guy55
    guy55
    Uncertainty or did she move on?
    So this girl and I (both in college) went on our first dinner date two weeks ago and I kissed her twice sort of out of the blue after lingering in hug at the end of the night. However, she said "that was awkward" after the second kiss. After this date she went from hot to cold. My friends believe she is processing everything and needs space and encourages me not to walk away, so I send h...

    Forum posted ago
    Nyla Nyla
    - Hi guy55! How ow have you been? It's only a birthday msg! Why not. My mans birthday is in a few weeks! I'm thinking the same has you! It's been 11 weeks since we have split! :( we emailed last week he asked how I was n said he would ring me! But he hasn't.

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  • bellelight
    bellelight
    What should I do when my man is ignoring my communication?
    I met a 47 year old man online in January. We met for lunch right away, and really clicked. The next day, he text me, we chatted, and he said “too bad we can’t get together” and I said “who said we can’t?”, and so we had a date that night, out to dinner. We were both very attracted to each other, and talked easily. We didn’t see each other for a week aft...

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    Harmony Seeker Harmony Seeker
    - I have to agree completely with MixedBreed. I have not met my guy in person as of yet but he did reach out to me while he is still in his cave apologizing for taking so long to get back to me and explaining to me that he is still solving problems and things he's going thorough. I have experienced that what John teaches in his books actually work. I am not expecting a relationship with my cr...

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  • Guest_0CDEA2DA-A
    Mars Venus Wellness Solution For Women Guest_0CDEA2DA-A
    Mars Venus Wellness Solution For Women
    “Wellness solution for women” - I love the solution , I feel so good. Thank u

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  • angeleyes153
    angeleyes153
    What's Next??
    For those of you that have been following my story, I have an update. As you know I saw my ex online, on a dating site. I thought since it had been a couple of months I would just say hi. I was the one who broke it off and took him off my facebook page. Last night I got weak, sent him an email. It just said “how are you?” Well, he emailed me back!! Not, right away, but he did respon...

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    angeleyes153 angeleyes153
    - We're suppose to be getting a "Spam Button" i'm getting sick of the fortune teller. If she was so good then why is she spamming the forum trying to pick up business?Desperate cuz she's a sham!!

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  • winx62
    winx62
    Trying to repair a relationship
    July 2012 is when her and I met. We met at work. For privacy reasons we'll call her Zoe. I was about 2 months removed from a 2 year relationship and she was heavily interested in dating me. I resisted at first so that I could heal from my breakup. We went out, we slept together and eventually it turned into a serious relationship. During the way there we had a few fights regarding our status....

    Forum posted ago
    angeleyes153 angeleyes153
    - I agree with MixedBreed "Starting Over" would be a great book to read. Looks like she does have some mixed emotions about the past to get over! One thing is for sure "Love" is a powerful thing and it always finds a way.....

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  • KPR
    KPR
    how to decipher between menopause and marriage atrophy
    I have finished reading Mars/Venus and have a new appreciation for what my wife of 28 years needs from me ( and have begun to earn points) and what I need, appreciation. But menopause has been present and my wife is struggling now for 3 years or so. I can not tell if it is the marriage atrophy or menopause or both that has my wife very intolerent and fruststrated with me. Our marriage,I woul...

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    spell temple spell temple
    - i just want to share my experience and testimony here.. i was married for 6 years to my husband and all of a sudden, another woman came into the picture.. he started hailing me and he was abusive. but i still loved him with all my heart and wanted him at all cost…then he filed for divorce. my whole life was turning apart and i didn’t know what to do .he moved out of the house and aban...

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