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  • jewely33
    jewely33
    Over Analyzing Addict
    My boyfriend and I have been dating exclusively for over 4 months. We have amazing communication. We have chemistry. We both just "get" each other. I am 41, divorced and have 3 kiddos, which he has met and we have done things all together. He is 46, divorced, and no kids. I have met his parents. He has met my family. We have both met each other's friends. We have taken trips together...

    Forum posted ago
    MixedBreed MixedBreed
    - Hi, Jewely! It seems to me that your guy has a problem with conflict. It's probably from something in his past - maybe his former marriage, maybe something that happened when he was a child. If you haven't read the book "Mars and Venus Starting Over", it would probably help you (and him) to do so. In that book, John Gray gives you ways to bring to the surface negative feelings th...

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  • Lotus
    Lotus
    What to do....will he come out of his cave?
    I met my boyfriend 8 months ago. We’re both in our late forties and both came from difficult divorces. He divorced six years ago and I two years ago. In these six years he had never had a relationship. It went well immediately; felt good…After difficult times we we felt some positive energy again. We met each other’s children and the children met each other, we were very caref...

    Forum posted ago
    Alidan Alidan
    - And now that I think about it. It's been almost 2 months but it doesn't really feel like 2 months because I have been keeping myself busy lately. The first few weeks were torture because I was waiting by my phone, expecting a reply, but now, I keep myself busy and just keep hoping that my happy texts show him that I am not mad at him for taking his cave time and that I am there for him when he is ready to come out. I will have my arms open and ready to recieve his love for me.

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  • avg230
    avg230
    No longer mad, but still hurting from fight (Long post)
    I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. He treats me very well, and overall, it has been an absolutely wonderful relationship. I am deeply in love with him and am confident that he feels the same way. We went through a serious two-month rough patch a while back, but we worked past it and things have been even better. Things have also been better because, with some support (and ...

    Forum posted ago
    MixedBreed MixedBreed
    - Hi, avg! What happened is just a bad combination of circumstances. He had no control, and he hurt you. The things is, you can't and shouldn't blame yourself for his problems. I believe he realizes that, or he wouldn't have apologized to you. As far as the friends, I doubt that they thought anything about it, because they are his friends, and know how he is, and even more importantly, h...

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  • Margaret123
    Margaret123
    Stupid mistake
    I can't believe I could have been so stupid....but I was...and yes you may confirm it. However I would hope to also receive advice if there is some out there.. Here goes. Not a good way to commence a relationship, but the guy so blew me away in so many ways that yes I wanted to know him better...we just clicked. Story, he had been in a relationship for 10years (on and off) However when we m...

    Forum posted ago
    MixedBreed MixedBreed
    - Hi, Margaret! I'm seeing something here that you may not have realized. Your guy is hurting, too. Very badly. The reason he is lashing out when you bring the subject up, is because he has what John Gray calls "resentment flu". That happens when resentment builds up to the point where it has to come out! Please understand that I'm NOT taking his side here. The problem is, he has a...

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    Mars Venus Super Cleanse Drink for Men and Women
    “Super Cleanse Drink” - Gentle yet effective cleanse. Has a pleasant, refreshing lemonade flavor

    Review posted ago
  • Dasani
    Dasani
    Mixed signals
    This is my second posting regarding the same man. My heart wants to give him the benefit of the doubt but my senses are telling me to walk away. We were highschool classmates who reconnected 6 years ago and developed a friendship. We live 4 hours apart by plane. This past spring he began to initiate more than a friendship. He pursued me my texting and calling every day. Now I hardly ever hear fro...

    Forum posted ago
    MixedBreed MixedBreed
    - Dasani, This blog by Lauren Gray may help you to sort through things. :) http://www.marsvenus.com/blog/lauren-gray/is-breaking-up-the-end

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  • John Gray
    John Gray
    Ask John Gray for Health Advice...
    Your body is designed to heal itself. When your body is diseased, through accidents, poisoning, and exposure to stress, it is designed to cleanse itself of toxins and heal itself of sickness. Most Western medicine is best at treating symptoms. Holistic, homeopathic, preventative, and complementary medicine include better health choices for you than prescribing drugs, radiating cells, and removi...

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    jennifer5275 jennifer5275
    - I also want to say that Im on Copaxone, generic effexor 150 mg, and generic klonopin 2mg.

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  • winx62
    winx62
    Trying to repair a relationship
    July 2012 is when her and I met. We met at work. For privacy reasons we'll call her Zoe. I was about 2 months removed from a 2 year relationship and she was heavily interested in dating me. I resisted at first so that I could heal from my breakup. We went out, we slept together and eventually it turned into a serious relationship. During the way there we had a few fights regarding our status....

    Forum posted ago
    MixedBreed MixedBreed
    - You're welcome, Dane! :)

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  • MsRoses
    MsRoses
    Forgetful or not?
    I've been seeing this guy for a little over a month now and we met online. He is extremely busy between his two jobs, which I can respect, and therefor we see each other two or three times a week. We were out on a date two weekends ago and he mentioned going camping on Labor Day weekend and ask if I would like to go as well. I obviously said yes and we have not mentioned since. We were hanging...

    Forum posted ago
    MixedBreed MixedBreed
    - Exactly, London, and John Gray says that talking to a guy is not considered pursuing him. MsRoses' guy already asked her to go camping with him, she is not pursuing him, she is just verifying that his invitation still stands. Pursuing is when a woman tries to earn a guy's love by running after him, and doing things for him, in order to gain his love. MsRoses is only following up on an invi...

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  • rebelgj
    rebelgj
    1 Month away from marriage
    Ok, so my Fiance and I are getting married next month, 19th. Been together for almost 3 yrs engaged for 1 1/2 yrs. Both been divorded for 20 yrs, took us both this long to find "the right person". We're both excited about the wedding and everyone tells me thats all he talks about. Well, the past has reared it ugly head and I'm feeling very anxious. His first love has contacted hi...

    Forum posted ago
    MixedBreed MixedBreed
    - You're welcome, rebelgj! Have a wonderful wedding day, and a beautiful life together! I wish you all the best! :)

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  • Elisabeth123
    Elisabeth123
    Is he in his cave?
    I`m writing because I don`t know what to do. The beginning of our relationship was fine. We said to each other very nice words, showing our interests to each other and he was also initiating talking about love feelings that he felt to me. All was just great. Until I found out that he was meeting someone at the same time. After this I stopped contacting him. I thought that maybe I misunderstood ...

    Forum posted ago
    MixedBreed MixedBreed
    - You're welcome, Elizabeth! You can ask him for advice on something else, or you can just send him a happy update. It's also ok, too, to say something like "Missing you, but I know you're busy. Hope you're doing well!" That lets him know that you are missing him, but without making him feel guilty about being in his cave. (Just make sure you don't say you miss him too often, or he may think you ARE trying to make him feel guilty!)

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  • avg230
    avg230
    What just happened? Martian perspective please!
    I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year, and we have a great relationship. He's had other girlfriends, but this is my first serious relationship. (I'm 23, he's 25.) My dad went through some serious health issues and has been hospitalized for almsot a week. I've been sending my boyfriend updates on my dad's health, and he listens and cares and asks how he is, wh...

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  • Princess
    Princess
    Need Validation. Please help.
    Hi. I would appreciate additional information please regarding my following theory: In relation to Mr. John Gray's concept of rubberbanding of Ms, is it safe to assume that sudden sexualabstinence can greatly affect my M's oxytocin level as lack of sex would affect his testosterone levels? Any references that I can use would also be much appreciated. Thank you very much in advance.

    Forum posted ago
    MixedBreed MixedBreed
    - I am not by any means an expert on this, but in my opinion, abstinence could cause the relationship to fade, if the bond is not supported in other ways. I am assuming that by abstinence, you mean total lack of sexual contact. Oxytocin does build if the couple remains sexual, as far as doing everything but intercourse. Many couples have to go through a form of abstinence when circumstances force it...

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    Mars Venus Super Cleanse Drink for Men and Women Guest_58067E66-4
    Mars Venus Super Cleanse Drink for Men and Women
    “A great way to start a day” - Good tasting drink that works

    Review posted ago
  • megger
    megger
    Pituitary
    I think my pituitary is having issues. No longer producing vasopressin low testosterone particularly interested to know if you have any info on vaspressin. thanks, Michael

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  • Bartenderlife21
    Bartenderlife21
    What happened?
    I met a man asI was bartending. We had great conversation and he left me his number. Against my belief on calling a man I meet at work- I texted him later that night. We talked for about a week, before we went on a date. We had a great time and great conversation. Before we even got back to his car, he was already talking about our second date. We texted often and he would call me just to hear ...

    Forum posted ago
    london london
    - I highly doubt it is a test. Men usually test a woman when he is pursuing he-- the testing allows him to see her emotional strengths/weaknesses. I wouldn't try to understand it -- not worth it. He deleted you on Instagram. Period. Could be lots of reasons and he is the only one who knows why.

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    Myomin - Eliminate Toxins & Restore Hormone Balance
    “Review of Myomin after @ 2 weeks” - I've been on Myomin now for 2 weeks (less one day). My husband has been on it for @ 9 days. It has absolutely helped my hot flashes and night sweats. Hot flashes have disappeared completely (when I was having them 3/4 times a day prior to starting Myomin) and night sweats reduced 99% (I was having them two-three times a night prior to starting Myomin, now I've had a mild recurrence only ...

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  • chrys
    chrys
    CONFUSED!
    Hi everyone, I have a little doubt I'm meeting a trans man who was biologycally a woman at first but now is a man. I know he is a man physically speaking but what about his way of think and mind its a male or a female in that aspect because its diffrent to conquer and seduce a man or a woman. Thanks Cheers.

    Forum posted ago
    chrys chrys
    - Thanks so much *^* I will treat him as a Mars

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  • DemiSchae
    Downloadable Ebook Mars Venus Dating For Couples And Singles: Hip Relationship Advice From The Girl Who Learned It With Her ABCs (eBook) DemiSchae
    Downloadable Ebook Mars Venus Dating For Couples And Singles: Hip Relationship Advice From The Girl Who Learned It With Her ABCs (eBook)
    “Fun, Interesting and TOTALLY relatable!” - I completely devoured this ebook the second I got it! It kept me gripped, because I could completely relate to it. Lauren offers advice that can be used by people of all ages, which is what makes it so relatable. Lauren allows her witty, fun nature to seep into the book, while still getting down to business. I have deemed it a good investment for a great relationship!

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