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  • Heavy2
    Heavy2
    Healing letter done differently
    Ok so I have thought about this for while. I thought that there doesn't seem to be a lot of males on here and i would like to reflect my healing letter on this forum instead. Each day I will be posting as to how I am feeling about myself the break up and you will see the progress of my healing so the women on here can see that not all us guys go into a cave and hide but can let out our feeling...

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    Harmony Seeker Harmony Seeker
    - Wow Heavy, what you just said really hit me hard and kind of helped me realize that guys do need to take time to heal and it really helped hearing it from a guy. You are doing an amazing job. Congrats on your job. MixedBreed is so right with what she said. You have given so much to this woman and she ended up giving you nothing back.There is someone out there whi is going to be SOOOO lucky to h...

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  • eslie070211
    eslie070211
    Advice
    Hi jonh I want some advice I been with bf for 3 years now we don't live near each other its a long distance relationship we have always workout our relationship but these past weeks haven't seen each other the reason because I been working and him cuz he puts his friends first at times like this week he wants to see me but I don't because I'm to lazy to the rush getting home ...

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  • newtolove
    newtolove
    Share your favourite quotes, for feelings of well being :)
    Again another bookmark idea. Harmony seeker gave me this idea actually, sometimes we keep seeing and using the same great advice in different topics. So instead of searching through all the different topics to find them, I'm making a topic just for favourite quotes. It can be from yourself/people/books/websites etc, anything that puts you in a better mood and fills you with well being, and hel...

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    Harmony Seeker Harmony Seeker
    - Oh, right, Well I guess I forgot about it. Thanks for the reminder.

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  • John Gray
    John Gray
    How long will he be in his "cave"?
    Probably the most asked question I get is "How long will he be in his cave?" Also... "We share the same bed but I don't think he knows I am there." "Why does he put me on a pedestal one moment , then drop me to last on his list at other times?" "My husband has male PMS." This is actually a very normal process that most men experience in intimate r...

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    elnazood elnazood
    - Hi, I was with a guy for about 6 month. Everything was great at the beginning. He was soooo into me, he called several times, and we had a really good relationship, till one night that we had sex. I was virgin but that night I lost my virginity. In our culture, usually girls should be virgin till their marriage, but we live in canada! After that, I had a very bad time, I felt soooo bad!and ...

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  • Wolf1020
    Wolf1020
    She broke up with me on my birthday but we still live together.
    Hi guys, I'm new here. I commented on one of Lauren's post to see if she'd give me some input but I figured I'd share here to see if anyone can shed some light. I'm truly hurt, confused and unsure what to do about my relationship. She actually broke up with me approximately 2 weeks ago (October 20) but we still live together. Here are some key points: 1) She wa...

    Forum posted ago
    Wolf1020 Wolf1020
    - Thanks Heavy. To keep everyone posted. She was over her parents for over 2 weeks helping them. When she got back from NY, she found her aunt had died. When she returned back to my house, not even 30 minutes later, she found out her godfather had a heart attack. So she immediately went back. So she's been through a lot. She came back home yesterday while I was at work, and she decided to ...

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  • Katie
    Katie
    I did something bad and I don't know how to fix it.. :/
    Okay, I'm just gonna say it straight away.. I screwed up. Scratch that- I f*cked up. I don't know what to do at this point, everything I think about doing or saying seems wrong, and I really, really want to fix this.. So, here's the situation I'm in. I am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend; he lives in India and I live in Costa Rica. We've been together for al...

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    Katie Katie
    - Hey Luci! :) About what you said..we did do that. :$ We used to do it a lot before, and it's actually the reason we met (I guess you could say the first time we met was supposed to be like a cyber 'one-night stand' but it became something else). Neither of us has ever actually, ahem, taken it to completion, but we've done it. :P Yeah, even on skype.. :$ But I guess I am kinda sh...

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  • anisakh
    Lithium Orotate - Positive Mood & Brain Function - New Manufacture anisakh
    Lithium Orotate - Positive Mood & Brain Function - New Manufacture
    “Life saver” - I'm bipolar and I've started taking this along with 5htp and omega 3's and have been able to reduce my medication

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  • cb82876
    cb82876
    Long Distance Uncertainty
    I am a first time poster, although I've been reading through some of the other posts here for a while. I feel very confused and uncertain and would love opinions from others (especially if their eyes aren't clouded like mine!!). I met a man 2 years ago when we worked together on a medical mission trip. We were just friends initially, but when I saw him again a year later, we seemed to hit...

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    Ballet14 Ballet14
    - Read the book Boundaries!!! Trust me! If you read this book all of your anxiety will leave you

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  • John Gray
    John Gray
    Ask John Gray for Relationship Advice...
    Lost in love? Need my help? Just ask... Please understand that I will try to help as many as possible here but there may be times when I cannot get to all of the questions asked.Edited by John Gray on Oct 29 2012 3:24PM

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    newtolove newtolove
    - Hi Himani, I'll say again that Mr John Gray has never replied to this post topic. If you look through it no one that has ever used this post got an answer from him. I'm not sure if anyone is still reading this topic so I'll say again, create a new post with your own individual problem. I'm saying this as you might not like the answer I'm about to give you. I think you ans...

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  • Lydia1019
    Lydia1019
    Texting everyday, does it mean anything?
    This guy I met online for about a month now. We have been texting each other daily without fail. We talk about our lives, our past and we do take pictures of our daily lives or our working environment or even places we went that draws our attention and share to each other through whatsapp. More than half of his text messages, he tends to use a lot of "??????????" emoticons. He replies to...

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    Lydia1019 Lydia1019
    - We did met yesterday. He told me that he would like to see me on Saturday!

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  • easylife123
    easylife123
    Push and Pull Help!
    I have been seeing this guy (we have been on a couple dates) and they are always so much fun! Yet we go out one night and then he decides he wants to start over and try again - and then in a week he changes his mind and tells me that it's over and he doesn't think it can work. His housemate has asked me on dates and so have other guys, but it is bugging me that he is constanly doing this. ...

    Forum posted ago
    Luci Luci
    - Dear Easylife, I have to ask, have you read any of John Gray's books? I think the book Mars and Venus Dating would be helpful to you.. Also there is a free book you can get on this website from Lauren Gray his daughter that would also be helpful. If you sign up for emails you can gether book for free. What I sense is that you have given more than YOU felt comfortable with so far in this rel...

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  • easylife123
    easylife123
    Push and Pull Help!
    I have been seeing this guy (we have been on a couple dates) and they are always so much fun! Yet we go out one night and then he decides he wants to start over and try again - and then in a week he changes his mind and tells me that it's over and he doesn't think it can work. His housemate has asked me on dates and so have other guys, but it is bugging me that he is constanly doing this. ...

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  • easylife123
    easylife123
    Push and Pull Help!
    I have been seeing this guy (we have been on a couple dates) and they are always so much fun! Yet we go out one night and then he decides he wants to start over and try again - and then in a week he changes his mind and tells me that it's over and he doesn't think it can work. His housemate has asked me on dates and so have other guys, but it is bugging me that he is constanly doing this. ...

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  • easylife123
    easylife123
    Push and Pull Help!
    I have been seeing this guy (we have been on a couple dates) and they are always so much fun! Yet we go out one night and then he decides he wants to start over and try again - and then in a week he changes his mind and tells me that it's over and he doesn't think it can work. His housemate has asked me on dates and so have other guys, but it is bugging me that he is constanly doing this. ...

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  • easylife123
    easylife123
    Push and Pull Help!
    I have been seeing this guy (we have been on a couple dates) and they are always so much fun! Yet we go out one night and then he decides he wants to start over and try again - and then in a week he changes his mind and tells me that it's over and he doesn't think it can work. His housemate has asked me on dates and so have other guys, but it is bugging me that he is constanly doing this. ...

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  • easylife123
    easylife123
    Push and Pull Help!
    I have been seeing this guy (we have been on a couple dates) and they are always so much fun! Yet we go out one night and then he decides he wants to start over and try again - and then in a week he changes his mind and tells me that it's over and he doesn't think it can work. His housemate has asked me on dates and so have other guys, but it is bugging me that he is constanly doing this. ...

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  • easylife123
    easylife123
    Push and Pull Help!
    I have been seeing this guy (we have been on a couple dates) and they are always so much fun! Yet we go out one night and then he decides he wants to start over and try again - and then in a week he changes his mind and tells me that it's over and he doesn't think it can work. His housemate has asked me on dates and so have other guys, but it is bugging me that he is constanly doing this. ...

    Forum posted ago
  • easylife123
    easylife123
    Push and Pull Help!
    I have been seeing this guy (we have been on a couple dates) and they are always so much fun! Yet we go out one night and then he decides he wants to start over and try again - and then in a week he changes his mind and tells me that it's over and he doesn't think it can work. His housemate has asked me on dates and so have other guys, but it is bugging me that he is constanly doing this. ...

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  • easylife123
    easylife123
    Push and Pull Help!
    I have been seeing this guy (we have been on a couple dates) and they are always so much fun! Yet we go out one night and then he decides he wants to start over and try again - and then in a week he changes his mind and tells me that it's over and he doesn't think it can work. His housemate has asked me on dates and so have other guys, but it is bugging me that he is constanly doing this. ...

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  • easylife123
    easylife123
    Push and Pull Help!
    I have been seeing this guy (we have been on a couple dates) and they are always so much fun! Yet we go out one night and then he decides he wants to start over and try again - and then in a week he changes his mind and tells me that it's over and he doesn't think it can work. His housemate has asked me on dates and so have other guys, but it is bugging me that he is constanly doing this. ...

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