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  • beautyandthebull
    beautyandthebull
    My guy friend told me he loves me then disappears .
    A week ago my guy friend who I've known for 4 years on and off told me he loves me 2 days in a row . & both times I might have pushed him away ! I basically told him no you don't it's lust ! You cant possibly love me ! You barely know me & I barely know you ! I think my words may have hurt him so bad because now he won't talk to me ! Hes ignoring me & I just don'...

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  • YogiDance
    YogiDance
    Long Distance Break Up
    Hi, My boyfriend of about a year and I just broke up. Setting: he was a visiting professor from Europe here for 3 months, we hit it off and stayed long-distance. Within our long distance relationship, he came back and visited 2 months after his first departure. It was great! I really felt a connection and I was sure we were on the same page. We began planning our future together- he planned to ...

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  • Ktlottie
    Ktlottie
    On or off?
    Ok, here goes. I'm 40, divorced for 5 years. We were set up, he's 37, going through a divorce. We met and hit it off, after the first two weeks we saw each other nightly and all,weekend. I went to Vegas with him for a work trip, we met each other's families. After about 6 weeks, his daughters finally started coming around to visit with him (they really hadn't seen him in 3 months)....

    Forum posted ago
    Ktlottie Ktlottie
    - Well, he lied to me about something pretty big from last weekend, and it seems he has time to talk to everyone else in his life except me. So I asked him to meet me last night, to get the rest of his things. So we can talk. He brings his 17 year old son, so he doesn't have to talk to me. Again, he has all the time in the world to talk to other people, just not me. So I give him his things back...

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  • Bellahug
    Bellahug
    How do you know it's a Cave retreat or They don't want to be with you?
    This is my first time posting. I've read Men are from Mars Women are from Venus.So did my boyfriend.I don't know what to believe. I am 54 years young, my guy is 56 years young. I am raising my grandkids, 5 and 6,since my daughter died 3 years ago. When I met him in January, we were both working at a show. He helped me pack up and then asked me out. I told him my life is so complicated a...

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    Rayann Rayann
    - Hugs to you. Sounds to me like you ended it on your end. I would not expect a call from him anytime soon, at least not until everything settles for him. He is likely quite hurt, and will retreat further from you for now. As for my situation. I just found out the my boyfriend is moving to another country. He has traveled back and forth for some of the stressful things he has in his life, and the...

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  • Alidan
    Alidan
    How do you let a clingy guy know that you are not interested
    Met this guy online a few months ago. We met up once and chilled at his place and watched Netflix movies. We kissed and made outt, because i was in the moment. I was never ineterested in him. He twists my words around and guilts me into doing things that I do not want to do. When I told him that I was waiting for someone special that I love and trust to lose my virginity to, he told me that I w...

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    Alidan Alidan
    - thank you so much. i will read it when i have time

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  • newtolove
    newtolove
    filling in the blanks in my sentence
    Hi everyone, Since ask Lauren is still not up and running yet and is only for 300 word emails, i thought I might try here for some answers while I wait (and practice getting my question down to the 300 word minimum) Here is the history of my relationship with this man. All I've ever wanted is to understand why he behaves this way towards me, especially when he doesn't wish to be my b...

    Forum posted ago
    newtolove newtolove
    - Most of my diy in the house is all done, apart from the garden (planting trees and plants, and also getting new clothes line poles which is actually what he needs and hasn't done yet). The keeping in contact I can do, but the "looking forward to seeing you" leaves me feeling worried. I don't want him to think "shit she want's me out the cave before I'm ready" and put pressure on him.

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  • avg230
    Mars Venus Super Cleanse Drink for Men and Women avg230
    Mars Venus Super Cleanse Drink for Men and Women
    “Nice start to the morning” - A lot of people said it was too sweet, so I mexed one scoop with 16oz of water instead of 8 and it was fine. Great way to start the day out hydrated. No weight loss for me, sadly, but I did notice more energy in the mornings.

    Review posted ago
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    Super Minerals for Women with Lithium Orotate
    “Delicious Shake!!” - I like it and simply trust it!! Great Taste, it also keeps the stomach full.

    Review posted ago
  • Elisabeth123
    Elisabeth123
    Is he in his cave?
    I`m writing because I don`t know what to do. The beginning of our relationship was fine. We said to each other very nice words, showing our interests to each other and he was also initiating talking about love feelings that he felt to me. All was just great. Until I found out that he was meeting someone at the same time. After this I stopped contacting him. I thought that maybe I misunderstood ...

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    MixedBreed MixedBreed
    - You're welcome, Elizabeth! I know you'll find the right guy for you! :)

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  • KT
    KT
    I'm trying, but reeling everyday.
    I was in a relationship the woman of my dreams for a year and a half. It was by far the best relationship I've ever been in and the same with her. We simply connected on every single level. She is my best friend and if you believe in soul mates as I do for the first time, she is it. About six weeks ago she said she needed time and space, that she loved me and couldn't imagine me not being ...

    Forum posted ago
    MixedBreed MixedBreed
    - Hi, KT! I'm a little confused. What did your girl mean by "This chapter is coming to a close?" Does she not want to be your girlfriend anymore, or is it something to do with her life in general? She may be contemplating the direction of her life, and realizes that she would be asking too much of you, for instance, if she is considering moving across the country, to pursue her career,...

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  • lookingforhelp
    lookingforhelp
    girlfriend cheated - what do i do?
    Hello, I have been in a relationship for almost 4 months and things have been going extremely well. I really love this girl and she seems like a girl that I would be able to spend the rest of my life with. She called me up recently saying that she had just cheated on me and feels really bad. This was a huge shock to me, but I am willing to give her another chance. My problem is tha...

    Forum posted ago
    MixedBreed MixedBreed
    - I'm so happy for you! You're welcome! :)

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  • wah74
    wah74
    Did His Rubber Band Break?
    Hi all. Thanks for your thoughts. Here's the history of my current heartache (it's detailed. Get comfy. ) May 2014 I messaged a phenominal man on a online church dating site and he replied. We were similiar in a lot of ways and seemed like a great match. We really hit it off and things moved really fast. Within a short amount of time we had gone off the dating site and exchanged persona...

    Forum posted ago
    MixedBreed MixedBreed
    - Hi, Wah! I'm so sorry that I didn't notice your post before this. Honestly, I see a few red flags here. First of all, by him using the words "you" and "your" mistakes, it says to me that he is too willing to blame you for the problems in the relationship. Second, his not understanding when you fell asleep at 2 AM, after you explained to him what happened, shows a defini...

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  • guy55
    guy55
    Uncertainty or did she move on?
    So this girl and I (both in college) went on our first dinner date two weeks ago and I kissed her twice sort of out of the blue after lingering in hug at the end of the night. However, she said "that was awkward" after the second kiss. After this date she went from hot to cold. My friends believe she is processing everything and needs space and encourages me not to walk away, so I send h...

    Forum posted ago
    guy55 guy55
    - I think I will choose to stop communicating and stop pursuing her at this point like you mentioned earlier. Thanks for all your help Mark.

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  • palmertree36
    palmertree36
    stress in a relationship
    Near 3 year relationship - my live in boyfriend has been the best emotional support - loving caring - my mother died and he was my rock. I suffered mild depression and he got a new job which he hates and has caused him insane stress. lots of arguments and things have come to a head as he has been emotionally disabled. not the same guy - ... we are on a mild break and he has moved back to his mo...

    Forum posted ago
    MixedBreed MixedBreed
    - Hi, Palmertree! It is hard to cope with a guy who's in his cave. However, It helps to know that he has no choice in the matter. It's just the way he's made. Guys have very few connectors between the emotional side of their brains, and the problem solving side of their brains. (We women have thousands of those connectors, which is why we can multi-task and guys can't.) When a guy ge...

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  • Nano44
    Nano44
    I don't know what to think
    Hi all, First of all, thank you for taking the time to read my post. I started dating a guy in January. I fell in love with him and I believe he's very keen on me. He's a very mature, honest and straight man. I am 40 and he is 32, he is very cultured and he recently took over his family business. He works very hard (70 hours a week) and has to cope with a lot of stress. His Dad is a ...

    Forum posted ago
    MixedBreed MixedBreed
    - Hi, Nano! I believe that your guy still loves you, and that he is just in his cave. If he was NOT in his cave, and still didn't give more to the relationship than you are, then yes, I would agree with the fact that he didn't deserve you, and that you should move on. However, he IS in his cave, and therefore needs your understanding. Going into his cave is not a choice he makes for himself....

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    “Great for Skin and Nails” - I have very fragile, brittle nails. Within 2 weeks of using BioSil, my nails are very thick, healthy and strong, longer than they have every been. I'm also happy with the results on my skin, it's more supple and glowing.

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  • eiko_su
    eiko_su
    Back and forth with the man I have love so much
    My boyfriend and I were together for 2.5 yrs. We were having a lot of problems and we fought a lot. I have a big ego and wants my man to treat me like a queen from time to time and he was an emotionally scattered man who was always not sure what he wants. There was one thing we both know, and that was we love each other and truly care for each other. I had loved him unconditonally towards the end,...

    Forum posted ago
    MixedBreed MixedBreed
    - Hi, eiko_su! If you can't give up on your guy, it's because your heart is telling you not to. Your guy sounds as if he's rubberbanding, which is something a guy does after they've become very emotionally close to a woman. It has to do with his hormones. When he is emotionally close to you, his testosterone drops, and he gets very tired. He has to pull away then, to rebuild his test...

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  • Alidan
    Alidan
    Should I message him again or is it the rubber band effect
    I met this guy on an online dating site about 3 weeks ago. for the first week, we would talk non stop and talked about getting together within 9 days of knowing each other. He told me that he liked me on the day of talking to me and as the days went on and we converesed, the compliments kept coming. He told me I was unlike any other girl he has ever met and I inspired and made him feel things that...

    Forum posted ago
    Alidan Alidan
    - I am going to do my best and stay positive and think back on all the positive feelings we shared. He also told me that he trusted me. I think he got a little scared because it was moving so fast and he said that he doesn't think he has liked someone as much as he likes me as fast as he did. He wanted to get together (Boyfriend/girlfriend) about 9 days into talking and that kind of scared me. T...

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  • ZebraCakes
    ZebraCakes
    I'm back again for advice...(^__^ #)?P.S. I'm sorry, I don't really have anywhere or anyone I can go to for support or advice. (?´_`?)
    So I've been reading Mars and Venus Starting Over. I'm starting to lose faith in my current relationship. He's in his cave and I'm in my well. I've been trying to use short updates and ask his advice on topics he is experienced in. He seems rather irritated and gives me short, vague comments. I'm trying to prepare myself for one of two things, he breaks up with me or we ...

    Forum posted ago
    Alidan Alidan
    - I read somethings somewhere that has helped me. "Strong women scare weak men." He cannot deal with you or "afford" you. Keep your head up. I have a lot of motivational quotes that help me through life.

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  • ZebraCakes
    ZebraCakes
    Crying Uncontrollably! Please I need someone!
    "you're always going to be disappointed by me, and I'm aware of this. So I should save you the pain and simply run away" my bf said this to me. What shud I say? I told him that I'm not disappointed in him and I want to be with him. But He's in his cave and I don't know how to get through to him. SOMEONE HELP!! T_T

    Forum posted ago
    Mark Blasini_71281 Mark Blasini_71281
    - The first thing you have to do is understand why he's saying this. What issues does he have with himself? Sounds like they are really deep insecurities. Self-esteem issues. This isn't something that can be resolved by you just "saying" something. And you have to consider whether you're invested in trying to help him through this. Important thing to understand is that his i...

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