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  • snowbalchick
    snowbalchick
    He is being spiteful/shunning How to handle
    We keep going through the same thing over and over. I say something that sets him off (like a sarcastic comment like SorrRRyyy) He gets mad. I appologize whole heartedly and make sure he knows I know what I did that bothered him and ensure him I won't do the same thing again. (For example sorry for being sarcastic, now I know that really botheres you and will try my best on that note) B...

    Forum posted ago
    MixedBreed MixedBreed
    - Hi, Snowbalchick! Your guy's shunning of you when you "set him off" is a form of emotional abuse. It is his way of punishing you, for something that he perceives as wrong, whether or not you are really at fault. It's not that he doesn't understand that it hurts you, because you've told him it does. It is that he uses that pain to manipulate you. He doesn't want to wor...

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  • Bellahug
    Bellahug
    How do you know it's a Cave retreat or They don't want to be with you?
    This is my first time posting. I've read Men are from Mars Women are from Venus.So did my boyfriend.I don't know what to believe. I am 54 years young, my guy is 56 years young. I am raising my grandkids, 5 and 6,since my daughter died 3 years ago. When I met him in January, we were both working at a show. He helped me pack up and then asked me out. I told him my life is so complicated a...

    Forum posted ago
    Ktlottie Ktlottie
    - absolutely,if they don't want a relationship, neither do I. But I also need somebody who will be open and honest with me, it is not that hard to have a conversation about what you need and want. And if you are not feeling confident in the relationship or you want out of the relationship be an adult and say so. He will be alone for a long long time and I have a feeling I know why now his relationship ended, and why she cheated on him

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  • Alidan
    Alidan
    Uncertainty, in his cave, or just uninterested?
    I have posted my situation in a fourm before. I have also been getting a lot of positive feedback from other posters and members. Just to summerize. Met a guy on an online dating site a little over a month ago. We hit it off and talked non stop for about a week and a half. When we started talking, he was on his way to a cottage, but he still talked to me when he could. He told me within the ...

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  • Keish
    Super Foods Shake for Women with Undenatured Whey Protein Keish
    Super Foods Shake for Women with Undenatured Whey Protein
    “Delicious” - Super tasty addition to my smoothies!

    Review posted ago
  • Keish
    Mars Venus Super Cleanse Drink for Men and Women Keish
    Mars Venus Super Cleanse Drink for Men and Women
    “Effective” - The first day of taking the product I felt extremely tired. Two days later I got a terrible flu. Because of my knowledge of detoxing, I attributed these changes to a healing crisis (when the body reacts to toxins being dumped into the system). I think this speaks well to the product's effectiveness. No further symptoms so far. Together with the Super Minerals and the Super Shake plus cutting down on dairy and meat, I am seeing a significant difference in my digestion and energy.

    Review posted ago
  • kadams0918
    kadams0918
    Taking a break
    Hello friends. Sorry, this might be long. Long story short, I started seeing a man I work with. We were both in relationships at the time. He was married, and is currently separated. We were in love you guys. It was perfection, we clicked on every level, we read each others minds, it was amazing. Right when school got out, his soon to be ex put some demands on him about seeing his kids. He was liv...

    Forum posted ago
  • Alidan
    Alidan
    Not understanding
    Why is it that when you stop talking to a guy that you thought liked you but was only after one thing, they start messaging you more an more. This guy told me which areas of my body to focus on when exercising because i needed a bigger butt and smaller waist When I told him that I knew I was beautiful, he told me to calm down and then have the nerve to tell me that i'm alright and then p...

    Forum posted ago
    Alidan Alidan
    - He can keep trying all he wants. I have met someone i am actually willing to give myself to when the time is right. this guy told me that he is not ready for a replationship but we could still have fun together. I may end up blocking him eventually

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  • JustAGirl
    JustAGirl
    The last couple years, and problems now
    I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years. He is the only person I have ever been with, but he has been with man other women. The first year we were together, we had sex 1-3 times daily. However, the the second year, he met some girl and even though he didn't do anything with her( I talked to her myself, and even got copies of all messages between them) he almost broke up with me. It wa...

    Forum posted ago
    MixedBreed MixedBreed
    - Hi, Justagirl! It sounds to me as if he has low testosterone levels. That is the hormone that causes passion in a guy. When a guy's testosterone drops, he becomes exhausted, and his confidence drops. If it continues, he can get depressed, and that is what I'm seeing through your description of things. This can be caused by physical or emotional stress. If he doesn't feel appreciated en...

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  • CM
    CM
    WE WENT TOO FAST
    Hi! I'm in need of some advice please... After a phase in my life of terrible dating experiences, I decided to take some time off to heal and learn. I recently decided to try online dating and met a fab guy who asked me on a date. I was surprised to find someone who met so many of my expectations, I felt really well with him. That night, he tried to have sex with me and I said no. He wal...

    Forum posted ago
    MixedBreed MixedBreed
    - Hi, CM! Since the two of you are on the same page, as far as feeling that you went too fast, why don't you ask him if he wants to start over, but hold off on the sex until you both know that you're ready? He may be regretting having broken up with you, since from what I've read, he did that before he found out that you feel the same way! From what you've said, I don't know it h...

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  • Dawsom18
    Dawsom18
    Movig in together.
    Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now, we are moving in together next month but he has been really distant. he said it's because we will be seeing each other every day when he moves in and he wants to just be by himself. We work complete differant shifts now, have differat sleeping patterns and differant schedules so I dont quite understand why he feels like it 's go...

    Forum posted ago
    MixedBreed MixedBreed
    - Glad to hear that you bought the book. You won't regret it! :)

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  • beautyandthebull
    beautyandthebull
    My guy friend told me he loves me then disappears .
    A week ago my guy friend who I've known for 4 years on and off told me he loves me 2 days in a row . & both times I might have pushed him away ! I basically told him no you don't it's lust ! You cant possibly love me ! You barely know me & I barely know you ! I think my words may have hurt him so bad because now he won't talk to me ! Hes ignoring me & I just don'...

    Forum posted ago
    beautyandthebull beautyandthebull
    - Thank you so much I will try this ! I hope he can forgive me for what I've done

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  • Elisabeth123
    Elisabeth123
    Women are like stoves and men are like torches
    I found the sentence by John Gray that women are like stoves and men are like torches. I find myself like a real big stove. Often when a man is engaging on the relationship so very fast I need time for this and would like first to be friends. What to do? Try to adjust to them? Or just be yourself? But then they will quickly go off like real torch or even disappear.

    Forum posted ago
    MixedBreed MixedBreed
    - Hi, Elizabeth123! You should always be true to yourself. When the right man for you comes along, he will understand, and be willing to wait for you!

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  • Froggy91
    Froggy91
    Playing risk.
    Here's my question, should I let him be and risk him finding someone else? Or shall I pursue in risk of pushing him into one of his friends arms? What's best for him? Background, We've been dating close to four years. My man drinks and smokes excessivly. He still has good judgement, he has a history of an abuse pattern. I've put him through a lot of stuff no one should ...

    Forum posted ago
    MixedBreed MixedBreed
    - Froggy91, I responded on your other post. :)

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  • Froggy91
    Froggy91
    Just wanting to be a good friend. Ugh men.
    Okay I have a better question. How do I not feel guilty when I haven't done anything wrong and he thinks I've been cheating? I have guilt from doing it in the past so it may be just unresolved feelings? I've told him all about it because I thought it would make me guilt free, maybe there isn't an answer for that. I called him hours later after he sent me a text that he cut his ...

    Forum posted ago
    MixedBreed MixedBreed
    - Hi, Froggy! What I see here are two people who have a LOT of trust issues from past experiences, and also abusive behavior. Having been in an abusive marriage for 20 years, I see all the signs. I would suggest that you get a copy of "Mars and Venus Starting Over". John Gray gives advice and exercises to do in that book that will help you work through your feelings from the past. He has w...

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  • newtolove
    newtolove
    filling in the blanks in my sentence
    Hi everyone, Since ask Lauren is still not up and running yet and is only for 300 word emails, i thought I might try here for some answers while I wait (and practice getting my question down to the 300 word minimum) Here is the history of my relationship with this man. All I've ever wanted is to understand why he behaves this way towards me, especially when he doesn't wish to be my b...

    Forum posted ago
    MixedBreed MixedBreed
    - I'm very happy for you, Newtolove! :)

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  • YogiDance
    YogiDance
    Long Distance Break Up
    Hi, My boyfriend of about a year and I just broke up. Setting: he was a visiting professor from Europe here for 3 months, we hit it off and stayed long-distance. Within our long distance relationship, he came back and visited 2 months after his first departure. It was great! I really felt a connection and I was sure we were on the same page. We began planning our future together- he planned to ...

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  • Ktlottie
    Ktlottie
    On or off?
    Ok, here goes. I'm 40, divorced for 5 years. We were set up, he's 37, going through a divorce. We met and hit it off, after the first two weeks we saw each other nightly and all,weekend. I went to Vegas with him for a work trip, we met each other's families. After about 6 weeks, his daughters finally started coming around to visit with him (they really hadn't seen him in 3 months)....

    Forum posted ago
    Ktlottie Ktlottie
    - Well, he lied to me about something pretty big from last weekend, and it seems he has time to talk to everyone else in his life except me. So I asked him to meet me last night, to get the rest of his things. So we can talk. He brings his 17 year old son, so he doesn't have to talk to me. Again, he has all the time in the world to talk to other people, just not me. So I give him his things back...

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  • Alidan
    Alidan
    How do you let a clingy guy know that you are not interested
    Met this guy online a few months ago. We met up once and chilled at his place and watched Netflix movies. We kissed and made outt, because i was in the moment. I was never ineterested in him. He twists my words around and guilts me into doing things that I do not want to do. When I told him that I was waiting for someone special that I love and trust to lose my virginity to, he told me that I w...

    Forum posted ago
    Alidan Alidan
    - thank you so much. i will read it when i have time

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  • avg230
    Mars Venus Super Cleanse Drink for Men and Women avg230
    Mars Venus Super Cleanse Drink for Men and Women
    “Nice start to the morning” - A lot of people said it was too sweet, so I mexed one scoop with 16oz of water instead of 8 and it was fine. Great way to start the day out hydrated. No weight loss for me, sadly, but I did notice more energy in the mornings.

    Review posted ago
  • hannahgi
    Super Minerals for Women with Lithium Orotate hannahgi
    Super Minerals for Women with Lithium Orotate
    “Delicious Shake!!” - I like it and simply trust it!! Great Taste, it also keeps the stomach full.

    Review posted ago