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  • natethan
    natethan
    Hot and cold man
    almost 7 months ago I met a man, we get along so well,same interests, same morals. He broke up with a woman a couple months before we met. A woman that he loved and wanted to marry but she kept cheating so he ended it, he was with her 2 years and kept dragging him along. The problem is he is very hot then cold.He will talk of a future with me and me finding a job close to him and in the future liv...

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    natethan natethan
    - I did text him that just now about being disappointed about not seeing him and that i over reacted, thank you . Hes not answering but im sure he will. I did over react it went right through me, pain and anger. Edited by natethan on Dec 20 2014 2:55PM

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  • rattle170
    rattle170
    long distance
    Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 6 months already im 23 and she about to turn 22 and this is a long distance relationship. About 2 weeks ago we where talking about school and how where both almost done and how much nicer and warmer it would be for her if she can come down here. She told me we will see sooner or later and then I said to her (I wish I never said this) "I never...

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    rattle170 rattle170
    - Thank you Luci your a huge help!! Kind of scary that i did the exact steps you suggested way before I posted this. So reading this helped me release a tremendous amount of burden on my shoulders!!! Thank you agian Luci! MARRY CHRISTMAS

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  • John Gray
    John Gray
    Ask John Gray for Relationship Advice...
    Lost in love? Need my help? Just ask... Please understand that I will try to help as many as possible here but there may be times when I cannot get to all of the questions asked.Edited by John Gray on Oct 29 2012 3:24PM

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    newtolove newtolove
    - himani, I'm not sure what happened but i private messaged you and left a message saying so on this thread. They don't seem to showing now so I'll just rewrite and hope you get it. stop trying to convince your brother your points on the situation. Trying to convince him what you and your brother in law did behind your sister's back is going to drive him further away. Right now he...

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  • Jl1428
    Jl1428
    Very very confused she became so cold
    Hi guys i never wrote on any forum or asked anyone for advice specially my friends or anyone close to me but I think now it's time to do so. I'll make this story short because its long and complicated. I'm Divorced with one child from previous marriage. I met my love of my life after my divorce and soon after we met I knew she is the best thing in my life. I own small business and two ...

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    Luci Luci
    - Jl1428, Well it's good that you do listen, but it sounds like there is something she is not talking about. You seem pretty clear about how you feel, so don't give up! Always follow your heart! But also try not to get too much into your hurt over this. Try to stay on top of that pain and sort of take an emotional step back. When my guy gets overly emotional I shut down. John Gray talk...

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  • Alwaysconfused
    Alwaysconfused
    Should I stay, or leave
    Hi there, I'm 38 and single parent to 9yr girl. My ex (her dad) and I get along pretty well we've been split up for about 8 years. He and I weren't good as a couple, much better apart. He was my first major terrible communicator problem. It's sad because i think a lot of my issues with relationships come from my background and really not growing up around men. Now, I'm a nurse,...

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    Luci Luci
    - Dear Alwaysconfused. Your story has been tugging at my heartstrings for a couple of days. It's been in the back of my mind, kind of like a rock in my shoe. I wanted to say something brilliant and witty and helpful. So first, I hope you had a Happy Hanukkah with your parents! Next, having had your story rolling around in my mind for a couple of days, I would have to say If you do not feel...

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  • mimosapudica
    mimosapudica
    The learning never stops: Overcoming fear that she will fall out of love.
    Background: I've been with my current girlfriend for 10 wonderful months. She is 37, I am 31. The chemistry and romance has been amazing. So far we've worked through some major moments of tension surrounding her insecurities about the age difference, as well as her uncertainties about my commitment to a long term relationship. In summary, its seems like we are great for each other and I a...

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    mimosapudica mimosapudica
    - Great to hear from you Mark. Reflecting back on my relationships throughout my 20s the fear of "falling out of love" was never even a thought back then. Oohhh the bliss of ignorance! Now that I'm in my 30s, I've experienced the highs and lows of committed partnership. I feel like you are right buddy: now its about learning to take care of ME so I can give the best version of myse...

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  • mrsglenn
    mrsglenn
    Chronic Fatigue or Narcolepsy?
    Hello everyone, I heard Dr. Gray on Coast to Coast and decided to check out the website. I'm sick of waiting around for doctors to come in and make me feel better. Sorry this is long winded, if anyone has any advice or opinions, please share. I'll take anything! Ever since I had my son over five years ago my energy and motivation completely left. I fall asleep so easily, I can't ...

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    mrsglenn mrsglenn
    - Thank you. I'm considering trying the Immpower supplement he suggested. It's expensive, but if it works, it's worth it. I really have nothing to lose but money :)

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  • newtolove
    newtolove
    looking for a support group to help me process the starting ovr book
    Hi everyone. Anyone who has read my thread: http://www.marsvenus.com/forum/t/filling-in-the-blanks-in-my-sentence/p~1 knows my story. Since I last worte in my thread I've been reading "starting over" and I've been doing the exercises in the book. I've worked through my emptions and I've gone back through my childhood memories and came up with a few that may be the c...

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    Harmony Seeker Harmony Seeker
    - You can always message me if you need someone to talk to

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  • RelationshipDummy
    RelationshipDummy
    Support needed
    At the beginning of May, I met a guy and we instantly connected which doesn’t happen often for me. I’m 37, he’s 39. We started communicating all day, every day via text messages. After several dates things were getting intense. Before we got physical I was honest and told him that I was talking to a few other guys, because after all, we were just getting to know each other. He to...

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    Luci Luci
    - RD - I don't see anything at all wrong with the message you sent him today. Because that message is acting like your true self. It is not accusing him of anything, like hurting you. And you are making yourself vulnerable. You asked him "Would you see me one last time?' This gives him the choice. He has the freedom to decide for himself whether he will say yes or no. This is very good....

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  • newtolove
    newtolove
    Share your favourite quotes, for feelings of well being :)
    Again another bookmark idea. Harmony seeker gave me this idea actually, sometimes we keep seeing and using the same great advice in different topics. So instead of searching through all the different topics to find them, I'm making a topic just for favourite quotes. It can be from yourself/people/books/websites etc, anything that puts you in a better mood and fills you with well being, and hel...

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    newtolove newtolove
    - Thanks again doris I love your quotes :) This one reminds me of what athletes do while training. They visualise wining so it really is a case of I think I can so I shall. It's all down to positive thinking and how you perceice yourself :)

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  • newtolove
    newtolove
    What does everybody (man and woman) think of this?
    I'm now reading "Starting Over" and I got to the bit about multiple dating. I've always tried to just date guys I had a curiousity thought of "would being in a relationship with you be good for me?" I'm afraid that if I will lead men on and hurt them like i did my first boyfriend. This blog that Lauren gray mentioned comes up with some really good questions while da...

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    newtolove newtolove
    - Hi ang_buff and alwaysconfused, I hope you have been using this site and made new threads with your situations so others's can help you. I think I remember Luci helping you at one point on your thread Alwaysconfused. I can't really help you both becuase i left my EUA last month and I'm trying to stay away from him from now on till I get my mind sorted out. i hope we all get throu...

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  • mccart45
    mccart45
    A TRUE SPELL CASTER HE IS HE BROUGHT BACK MY HUSBAND
    Am here to testify what this great spell caster done for me. i never believe in spell casting, until when i was was tempted to try it. i and my husband have been having a lot of problem living together, he will always not make me happy because he have fallen in love with another lady outside our relationship, i tried my best to make sure that my husband leave this woman but the more i talk to ...

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    newtolove newtolove
    - I tried to do that but I couldn't find the report button, so I decided a direct approach which isn't like me to troll. How did you do that? I just really hate people who would use people's pain for personal gain. The people who genuinely come on this site looking for help and answers, and find scum like this instead. It takes a lot of guts for people to pour their hearts out and as...

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  • DavidBaillie
    DavidBaillie
    Touch me please
    Why do the little ways our partners push our buttons and feel like the don't trust us mean that we have to stop touching? Any ideas anyone? Surely you would enjoy the intimacy of touch more?

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    mccart45 mccart45
    - Am here to testify what this great spell caster done for me. i never believe in spell casting, until when i was was tempted to try it. i and my husband have been having a lot of problem living together, he will always not make me happy because he have fallen in love with another lady outside our relationship, i tried my best to make sure that my husband leave this woman but the more i talk to ...

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  • Lynda
    Lynda
    Retired life and lack of intimacy
    Being retired brings a lot of new issues. We're together all the time, and yet, we don't do as much together as we did when we were both working. It seems our intimacy retired when we did. We've tried date nights; I've tried stopping what I'm doing to watch football (not my fav); and even asking to cuddle time. Nothing seems to really work, or last. Any ideas?

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    mccart45 mccart45
    - Am here to testify what this great spell caster done for me. i never believe in spell casting, until when i was was tempted to try it. i and my husband have been having a lot of problem living together, he will always not make me happy because he have fallen in love with another lady outside our relationship, i tried my best to make sure that my husband leave this woman but the more i talk to ...

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  • hmhambursin
    hmhambursin
    how to support infertile husband?
    Hi there, after two years trying to have a baby we've discovered that my husband is not fertile. We've had the news by phone two weeks ago. Since then he's tired and is now at home for 10 days with a certificate from the generalist because he doesn't feel well. However there is no medical explanation. How can I support him without being intrusive? It is also hard for me to co...

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    mccart45 mccart45
    - Am here to testify what this great spell caster done for me. i never believe in spell casting, until when i was was tempted to try it. i and my husband have been having a lot of problem living together, he will always not make me happy because he have fallen in love with another lady outside our relationship, i tried my best to make sure that my husband leave this woman but the more i talk to ...

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  • unharden
    unharden
    Harden wife's heart
    Hi all, Please help to advise how do i unharden my wife's heart. We have been together for 6 yrs and 6 months. but we are married for 2yrs 6 months. last month we got into another agrument and now she say's that it is over between us she become very hard towards me. She always travel around because of her work and when she is back now she will arrange things to do and not staying at ...

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    mccart45 mccart45
    - Am here to testify what this great spell caster done for me. i never believe in spell casting, until when i was was tempted to try it. i and my husband have been having a lot of problem living together, he will always not make me happy because he have fallen in love with another lady outside our relationship, i tried my best to make sure that my husband leave this woman but the more i talk to ...

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  • Judy3
    Judy3
    My husband wants one of his old girlfriends to visit.
    This is his girlfriend from grad school that wants to come to town to see him. She is married, but her husband will not be traveling with her. I have never met this person and feel really uncomfortable with this idea. He wants her to come here so that he can show her where he works and where he lives. Our marriage is already stressed with my husband telling me recently that he does not like me. I...

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    mccart45 mccart45
    - Am here to testify what this great spell caster done for me. i never believe in spell casting, until when i was was tempted to try it. i and my husband have been having a lot of problem living together, he will always not make me happy because he have fallen in love with another lady outside our relationship, i tried my best to make sure that my husband leave this woman but the more i talk to ...

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  • moonlightingmom
    moonlightingmom
    Husband wants to have cake and eat it, too
    I have been married for 18 years Until a few months ago, we would have told you that we have a fairytale romance. We were friends before we started dating, and 18 years after marriage, we still felt sexually attracted to one another and were very good friends. Truly, my husband and I felt as though we were the poster children for happy marriages. A month after our 18th anniversary, m...

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    mccart45 mccart45
    - Am here to testify what this great spell caster done for me. i never believe in spell casting, until when i was was tempted to try it. i and my husband have been having a lot of problem living together, he will always not make me happy because he have fallen in love with another lady outside our relationship, i tried my best to make sure that my husband leave this woman but the more i talk to ...

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  • jlelder84
    jlelder84
    I absolutely love my husband, but....
    I am 1 million percent in love with my newly wed husband. But I personally feel a drastic decrease in my own sexuality. I have gained a little bit of weight but this even happened even before that. I love my husband SOOOOOOOOOO incredibly much that it kills me to see him not even try with me anymore because I don't extend the same sexual interest as he does. He actually doesn't even try ...

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    mccart45 mccart45
    - Am here to testify what this great spell caster done for me. i never believe in spell casting, until when i was was tempted to try it. i and my husband have been having a lot of problem living together, he will always not make me happy because he have fallen in love with another lady outside our relationship, i tried my best to make sure that my husband leave this woman but the more i talk to ...

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  • KPR
    KPR
    how to decipher between menopause and marriage atrophy
    I have finished reading Mars/Venus and have a new appreciation for what my wife of 28 years needs from me ( and have begun to earn points) and what I need, appreciation. But menopause has been present and my wife is struggling now for 3 years or so. I can not tell if it is the marriage atrophy or menopause or both that has my wife very intolerent and fruststrated with me. Our marriage,I woul...

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    mccart45 mccart45
    - Am here to testify what this great spell caster done for me. i never believe in spell casting, until when i was was tempted to try it. i and my husband have been having a lot of problem living together, he will always not make me happy because he have fallen in love with another lady outside our relationship, i tried my best to make sure that my husband leave this woman but the more i talk to ...

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