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  • Vbgirl51
    Vbgirl51
    Great sex no commitment
    Hello, I have been seeing a man since August 2014. We first had sex in December 2014. It was wonderful! I am 63, he is 64. We are very young at heart and in looks. He has never been truly married.... he lived in Masachusets and lived there with a woman over 7 years. They still have "common law" wife law so they were considered married. My concerns: 1. His home is like a shrine to...

    Forum posted ago
    Luci Luci
    - Sorry to keep posting but it was bugging me. I left out: AndI set boundaries. I decidedI was not comfortable with the idea of having sex as long as he remains married. It is not a game, or a tool to force him to do anything. It is what I am comfortable with. I fooled myself for years that is was okay because we were going to get married. And his wife was gay, and a million other reasons. But...

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  • John Gray
    John Gray
    How long will he be in his "cave"?
    Probably the most asked question I get is "How long will he be in his cave?" Also... "We share the same bed but I don't think he knows I am there." "Why does he put me on a pedestal one moment , then drop me to last on his list at other times?" "My husband has male PMS." This is actually a very normal process that most men experience in intimate r...

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    kelbabe1973 kelbabe1973
    - I have a situation firstly i meet a lovely guy in whom was happy to call me i gave my number he was a good conversationist towards me we meet to gi to beach at afternoon first time sat and watched view and talked a little he said im a real gentalman if i wasnt i would have sex with you in the bushes and mixed messages we pass his house he said its a mess and i said i could come with him he had to...

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  • newtolove
    newtolove
    Share your favourite quotes, for feelings of well being :)
    Again another bookmark idea. Harmony seeker gave me this idea actually, sometimes we keep seeing and using the same great advice in different topics. So instead of searching through all the different topics to find them, I'm making a topic just for favourite quotes. It can be from yourself/people/books/websites etc, anything that puts you in a better mood and fills you with well being, and hel...

    Forum posted ago
    newtolove newtolove
    - Shakespeare - This above all: to thine own self be true, And it must follow, as the night the day, Thou canst not then be false to any man.

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  • Danielle111112
    Danielle111112
    How to restore a broken relationship and marriage
    After been in relationship with a guy for 3 years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to b...

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  • Danielle111112
    Danielle111112
    How to restore a broken relationship and marriage
    After been in relationship with a guy for 3 years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to b...

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  • Danielle111112
    Danielle111112
    How to restore a broken relationship and marriage
    After been in relationship with a guy for 3 years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to b...

    Forum posted ago
  • Astartee
    Astartee
    Need to feel reassured on future to enjoy present moment...
    Hello all, Well it's all in the title. I've already posted about how I had difficulties getting my boyfriend to open, and now I'm really feeling lost about another major thing. As I said, he is a charming person. He is fun, we have plenty of common interests, he loves me and I love him. However, we're getting close to our 30th birthday, and although we have discussed babies and ...

    Forum posted ago
    newtolove newtolove
    - I have read many books already, starting over really helped many things, but I can't help feeling wounded by my father's attitude when I was a child. I can't help thinking that you shouldn't have children unless you're ready to take care of them. - Bonnie (John Gray's wife) wrote a letter to her father. "Its in the book what you feel you can heal". The book has he...

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  • vickp
    vickp
    Mid life crisis.........or is it over ? please help
    Hi i am new and need advice, i am devastated and confused and don't know what to do, my partner and i have had 3 wonderful years together, not one cross word or argument, then he started a new job a few months ago and also turned 51, he started going out with the lads from work, most are younger and single, he started drinking (he does not drink) and staying out later and more often...you know...

    Forum posted ago
    newtolove newtolove
    - Hi Vickp, I just wanted to check in and see how you were. I hope you are feeling better and the financial plan you and him came up with is working for you. I found this article and thought I would share it with you: http://www.theguardian.com/money/2009/oct/21/make-money-from-your-home There was also a bit about selling space to energy companies like solar power panels using your roof etc. Hope this helps and hope to hear an update from you soon :)

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  • natethan
    natethan
    Hot and cold man
    almost 7 months ago I met a man, we get along so well,same interests, same morals. He broke up with a woman a couple months before we met. A woman that he loved and wanted to marry but she kept cheating so he ended it, he was with her 2 years and kept dragging him along. The problem is he is very hot then cold.He will talk of a future with me and me finding a job close to him and in the future liv...

    Forum posted ago
    newtolove newtolove
    - "i spent the evening with him, he thanked me for the letter. I wrote all of our good stuff, things we had done together and the closeness we had, but i also told him ignoring me was cruel and that i deserved better after all this time and that i was tired of it. If he didnt want me it was his loss. I will be spending the week end with him too" well that's a great start you're ...

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  • easylife123
    easylife123
    What is he thinking? figuring out a man and his choices
    Here is the backstory to R and I. We met, he expressed interest, but i was his supervisor and it was not allowed for anything to happen. After our contracts were done, we met at a party and flirted. He asked me out on a date, brought me to a restaurant and out for drinks to somewhere i had never been before, it was alot of fun. Then people started getting involved and things got complicated. Th...

    Forum posted ago
    newtolove newtolove
    - "I just don't understand him. he has just sent me a text now saying: " i think that we need to stop doing this everytime we meet. Niether of us is ever happy afterwards. next time we see eachother, lets just be friends and forget about everything else" Like what? last night he wanted to be friends with benefits and hook up andnow this? why? whats going on" 1- could b...

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  • newtolove
    newtolove
    For everyone who needs to vent. GO NUTS!
    I've been thinking about this and I think having a safe place to vent out all of our angry/violent/crazy/paranoid/things that confuse us/our perspective of things etc feelings is a great idea. Ii'm pretty sure Lauren talked about a memory where she was in a restuarant with her dad and she she was upset with her current boyfriend. So John told her to pretend he was the boyfriend and to shou...

    Forum posted ago
    Harmony Seeker Harmony Seeker
    - Haha, not a problem. I hope all is well with you :)

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  • sbeesalyer
    sbeesalyer
    pregnant with now ex who is dating a married woman. HELP!
    Back in October I found out that I was expecting. My boyfriend and I had broken up a month before and hooked up a month later and pregnancy resulted. I told him and he responded to me saying that he would help raise the child but didnt want to get back together with me. I suspected that there were other reasons why he broke it off with me other then what he told me. He basically told me that I was...

    Forum posted ago
    Luci Luci
    - Sbeesayler - Yes, in the US you can prevent him from seeing the child by getting him to legally relinquish all parental rights to the child. However, you will also forfeit the right to any child support and the child will be fatherless. Suggestion: Your ex is going to have 18 years to mature along with the child, so it's entirely possible that he will grow up and become more mature, and ...

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  • SaraSS
    Chocolate Super Foods Shake for Women with Undenatured Whey Protein SaraSS
    Chocolate Super Foods Shake for Women with Undenatured Whey Protein
    “Love this shake!” - I add a banana and I feel satisfied and ready to roll all morning. It feels great to know that my body is getting what it needs to stay strong and healthy. (And SO awesome to start my day with some chocolate!)

    Review posted ago
  • kammy1
    kammy1
    BF said he loved me, I said I wasn't there yet, now he's acting distant?
    Hi guys, About two months ago, I entered into a relationship with a guy who had been my incredibly close friend for about 4 months beforehand. I could tell from the day we met that he was attracted to me (he followed me around like a puppy dog, wanted to get to know me, etc.) but I wasn't interested in anything more, initially. However, as we spent more time together, I began to develop fee...

    Forum posted ago
    Luci Luci
    - Kammy1 - I think at this point all you can do is tell him you appreciate his honesty, and that since he is feeling so conflicted thatit would be best for you and your well being that he go ahead and take some more time to work through all of these conflicts in his own mind. And move on with your own life. You may think of this as a challenge, and think you can help him, but there really isn'...

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  • Rico Kumar
    GcMAF Bravo Probiotic Yogurt - 1 Month Supply Rico Kumar
    GcMAF Bravo Probiotic Yogurt - 1 Month Supply
    “Great for whole family!” - This is a must try product. It is easy to make, tastes delicious - better then any yogurt you have ever had, and helps with so many health issues. My family has been using this product for about 3 months consistently. My kids are doing much better in school. Their retention has greatly improved. I have much more energy and my digestive issues have cleared up. My wife has had no menstrual cram...

    Review posted ago
  • GreenEyes
    GcMAF Bravo Probiotic Yogurt - 1 Month Supply GreenEyes
    GcMAF Bravo Probiotic Yogurt - 1 Month Supply
    “Clear skin!” - This yogurt has absolutely cleared my acne wonderfully! I am amazed! I have been having terrible acne break outs and nothing was working. I thought this yogurt would certainly be worth a try and it worked! It's delicious too! I really enjoy the taste and texture is wonderful.

    Review posted ago
  • RonWild1
    GcMAF Bravo Probiotic Yogurt - 1 Month Supply RonWild1
    GcMAF Bravo Probiotic Yogurt - 1 Month Supply
    “Delicious!” - This yogurt is wonderful! It's delicious - better tasting than anything you have ever had before. It is easy to make - the directions are simple so don't be deterred. This is absolutely worth trying. I have been mixing it with my Superfoods shakes each morning. I have amazing energy. I have noticed my work outs at the gym have really stepped up. I recommend to everyone.

    Review posted ago
  • anisakh
    Nieperzymes - Enzymes for Digestion & Brain Support anisakh
    Nieperzymes - Enzymes for Digestion & Brain Support
    “Great Enzymes” - I think these really help with bloating when I take them with a meal that's usually hard to digest

    Review posted ago
  • smilesandtears
    smilesandtears
    Is there hope?
    My boyfriend and I were (using past tense because we might be over) together for 3 months. He was the first to say I love you, bring up marriage, moving in, etc. Out of the blue, he stumbled across messages I sent my friends discussing our relationship about times when he makes me happy or frustrates me (no cheating, just cute/aggravating things he does). That same day, he packs his stuff and move...

    Forum posted ago
    Luci Luci
    - Smileandtears - This struck me: "He called me while he was at work, but I told him I didn't want to distract him which made things worse. I texted this morning asking for just 5 minutes with no response" Do you understand how crazy making that was? He called you from work and wanted to talk. He wouldn't have called you unless he had time to talk, but you refused. Then you g...

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  • Leoniew
    Leoniew
    Entered a new relationship
    Hi so I met a guy on Christmas Day - it was a bit of a set up my sister in law invited him around knowing I was a bit sad about an ex that kept me just at arms length for when it suited him. We hit it off right away, though I have been holding back a bit but that only lasted about a week. We've been spending a lot of time together, I've spent every night at his place for around two weeks....

    Forum posted ago
    Harmony Seeker Harmony Seeker
    - "Nothing good or worth it ever comes easy"... Something I needed to hear... for my entire life. Thank you so much Luci for your words and advice. It has helped me.

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