Rose tells us how she came to understand the cave: "Before
I discovered the Mars and Venus principles, I was doing everything wrong. When
my husband went to his cave I had to follow. I thought I was doing the right
thing. I thought it was my job to go in there and get him. If I didn't, then
I wasn't a loving wife."
"For over twenty years I have tried everything to get into his cave. I used
dynamite to get in. I was a real cave buster!"
"But when the smoke and dust would clear, I looked around in his cave and he
still wasn't there. He was busy digging tunnels to escape me."
"Now I just let him go in there. He comes out all on his own. I've learned
the hard way. Anything I do to get him out only makes things worse. When he
goes to his cave, I go shopping. We are both so much happier. We are in love
again." |