When it comes to the man in your life, you want to give, give, give, right? You show him how much you care about him by going above and beyond. But even after you’ve picked up his shirts at the cleaners, stocked the fridge with his favorite beer, and cooked him your special steak and potatoes meal, he’s not happy with you! What’s going on? Why is he moody and quiet?
Well, perhaps it’s because you had a mini meltdown when you found out your sweetheart forgot to run an important errand. Sure, you have every right to be upset that he didn’t take care of the one thing on his list. But is getting upset worth it? Maybe to you it is… because now you will have to take care of the errand and, frankly, it seems like nothing ever gets done unless you make it happen. You’ve about had it with your man’s inconsiderate nature.
But is he inconsiderate on purpose? Is he really trying to make your life more difficult? He’s the one who erred yet he’s angry with you for expressing such strong disappointment in him? After all, you got his clothes, his food… you should get credit for all the little things you’re always doing for him, shouldn’t you?
Sure, you do deserve to be acknowledged for your efforts to make him happy. However, for men, it’s less about what you do for them and more about…
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