"...And they lived happily ever after..."
This must be one of the most misunderstood sentences ever written.
There has never been, and never will be, an automatic "happily ever after." Couples who rate their relationship as "Great!" on MarsVenus.com say that the number-one factor in their state of "bliss" is when both parties work to keep their relationship from falling into a rut.
Most happy couples have a routine that works for them and helps them feel safe and secure. However, it's very easy to step over the line from comfortable to complacent, and that can lead to a neglect of our partner's needs. The first clue that you have fallen into a rut is if one or both of you...
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