No one object has as much control over a single woman's emotions as the telephone does. The sound or vibration of its ring can fill her heart with eager anticipation, just as the absence of the ring can cause crushing sensations of doubt, fear, and loneliness. Ask Mars Venus Relationship Coaches share with us that it's this silent telephone that captures first place for upsetting our callers the most.
Why does this silence create such hurt and pain? Why does it seem that men and women have such different instincts about when to communicate? Lastly, and most importantly, what can a woman do to not react to this silence?
Life on Venus: Venusians love to share about their world through communication. It helps them to put daily events in context, solve problems, and it is a means for obtaining validation and reassurance. Girlfriends call each other frequently, and it is through lengthy conversation that they can release pent up emotions, debate the pros and cons, and validate each other's viewpoints -- all of which is done in a way that momentarily makes their world okay. Most Venusians wouldn't have it any other way!
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