A man is sometimes capable of making a woman feel as though she’s lost his love when, in reality, his love for her is still as strong as it ever was. In Mars Venus language, the male behaviors that can make a woman feel flat-out rejected are referred to as the “Cave” and the “Rubber Band.” These “afflictions” might be normal for a guy, but knowing this doesn't make it any easier for a woman to cope when she's suddenly been put on the back burner by the man she loves.
When a man goes into hiding, it can leave a woman feeling confused, neglected, and even unattractive. He's in his cave, distracting himself and ignoring you, doing anything but working to solve the issue he's supposedly dealing with -- and that can be downright baffling when you just want to show him how much you care and how ready you are to help him cope with whatever is concerning him.
When a man is in the cave, he tends to lose all awareness of a woman’s needs. And, unfortunately, he usually doesn’t warn the woman in his life that he’ll be emotionally inaccessible for a while. The problems begin when you...
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