It can seem like so many men just want to have fun, and it can feel like there is so little time according to your biological clock. If only you could find a man who is serious about settling down. Then, voila! You meet a guy who doesn't skirt the marriage question. In fact, he is the first man you've dated who doesn't say, "Marriage? Haven't really thought about it." It's a match made in heaven, right?
Well, it's our duty to break it to you gently, gals - in the earliest stages of dating, Attraction and Uncertainty, if a man talks about marriage, what you hear is probably not what he means to convey. Chances are good that marriage, in theory, sounds good to him. But, in the infant stages of your relationship, he is exploring the possibilities. He is not directing his thoughts of marriage toward any one person.
Is he maliciously leading you on? Not necessarily. Men have "timelines" too when it comes to marriage and it's crucial for you to understand how they work...
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