Martians:


When you get home tonight, ask her how her day was. Really listen to her as she answers you, and ask her several questions. She'll appreciate your interest.

Venusians:


Organize a scavenger hunt for that special Martian in your life and have it end at your house with a romantic dinner that YOU made.
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Martians:


When she needs reassurance, offer it willingly and without judgement.

Happy July 4th!
Martians & Venusians:


Enjoy the fireworks together on a comfy blanket, then make your own sparks later at home!

Date Night
Martians & Venusians:


Take up a weekend hobby together- play pool, garden, or go for a bike ride. Find one regular activity you can do together on the weekend.

Martians & Venusians:


Enjoy a sporty date this afternoon, like bowling, mini-golf or paddle boating.

Martians:


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Martians:


Write her a love letter and send it through the mail.

Venusians:


If he pulls away after being close, that's the rubber band acting. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you. Trust that he's doing the very best for you both!

Martians:


Find her when you get home and give her a hug - before you do anything else.

Date Night
Martians & Venusians:


Have a summer backyard bash. Invite friends, decorate, and serve festive food and drink!

Martians & Venusians:


Pick a favorite memory you and your partner share: relive it with the help of photos, memorabilia, or souvenirs.

Venusians:


Send him a hot SMS/text message to let him know what you are wearing under your outfit and that you are craving his touch.
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Martians:


Kiss her today without initiating sex. Let her know that you love and desire her all the time - not just as a prelude to sex.

Venusians:


Call his office before he arrives at work and leave a sweet good morning message.
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Martians:


While watching TV tonight, have her sit in front of you while you stroke her hair with your fingers or a brush.

Venusians:


Never forget: he is with you because he loves you!

Date Night
Martians & Venusians:


After an early dinner at home, work together to build a giant banana split for you to share as you watch the sun set.

Martians & Venusians:


Get out a map and calendar and plan a trip away together.

Martians:


Early in the week, send two tickets to her place of work. It can be airplane tickets for a weekend getaway or even tickets to a play or concert. The key is to keep it a surprise until she receives them!
Sent in by Elisa

Venusians:


Play his favorite music tonight as you dine. If you don't know what his favorites are ... ask!

Martians:


Give her a long back rub, emphasizing her sensitive spots.

Venusians:


Make this a week of working on improving communication. Let your partner be the expert on himself and spend the week learning about him as if it were for the first time.

Martians:


After dinner, run a bath for your sweetie, complete with rose petals, candles, and wine.

Date Night
Martians & Venusians:


Have a candle light dinner by the beach. After dinner, have coffee or tea and dance in the sand. End the night with a goodnight kiss.
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Martians & Venusians:


Plan a date night for one evening this week. Share the responsibilities of finding a sitter, making reservations, and getting all the details taken care of.

Venusians:


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Martians:


Leave her a note this morning telling her all the reasons you love her.

Venusians:


Slip a note in his pocket telling him a sensual thought you have about him - it will keep him smiling all day!

Martians:


When she's feeling down, encourage her to talk about her feelings. By offering her your shoulder, you're fulfilling one of her primary needs.