Hi John,

I feel lost and completely confused about my love life, my future & my feelings!

I am a 33 year "young" woman with 3 children. I have been in a committed relationship with a guy for the past 5 months. Over a year ago, his soon to be ex-wife told him that she did not want to be married anymore. He was separated from her for 7 months before he approached me.

Last week she told him that he cannot see his daughter until she meets me. I got upset about her reacti...

Hi John-

My ex-fiance and I split up 2 years ago. We have a 4 year old son together.

Instead of the usual split we have remained very close. For the first year, even though we were living apart, he would want me around every day to "hang out".

He moved to another state for work a year ago and since then he has been in constant contact every day. When he visits, he stays at my house, sleeps in my bed and we do everything a normal couple would do...but we are not a couple....