Hi John,

I have a 17 year old son who currently lives with his father. His father and I had a very ugly divorce and we fought for custody. For the past two years, my son has refused to have any communication with me. Attorneys have said what is going on now is just parent alienation against me.

I should also say my son is ADHD.

What is the best thing I can do to facilitate a relationship with my son?

Thank you-

Renee in Colorado


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