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    veryconfused at 2/9/2019 8:37:51 AM
    I've been single for 3 years. At a business meeting I got talking to someone, he emailed me with some advice the same evening and to my surprise a couple of days later asked if I wanted to go out with him for a drink. He said he didn't meet that many interesting people. I was flattered and agreed out of sheer curiosity.
    It was lovely. We had a great laugh. He's intelligent, funny.
    Another couple of weeks of apping, he starts ending the apps with "x"
    Another meal, just as nice as the first one. He starts holding my hand. We sit holding hands the rest of the evening. I'd forgotten I was a woman and start glowing.
    He strokes my hair when he comes back from paying.
    At the station we have a cuddle. I say I think he's a very attractive man, he says I'm an attractive woman. I kiss him, which was probably a bit too forward of me, and go for the train.
    The next day he doesn't answer the phone but apps that he has to go abroad on an emergency work trip. I get one brief app from him 10 days later.
    He wont answer the phone or reply to messages.

    2 things are now driving me mad:

    1. So how come this guy starts giving me all this attention completely unexpectedly and stops even more unexpectedly?

    Call me naive, but I really don't think he's a bastard who goes round using women.

    2. I was resigned to being single but this has opened a Pandora's box of feelings which I have no idea how to get rid of again.
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