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    Deciding when it's right to have sex with a new partner
    Kevin Watts at 7/13/2015 5:47:18 AM
    Hi Lauren Grey, Im Kevin Watts, this is my first time on this site and was wondering if you could give m help or some pointers. I would love to talk about how my gf can overcome this fear of showing me her body in the light. we've been together for 5 months but known eachother sense 6 grade and became best friends first then a couple 2nd and we make love all the time I cant keep count, sorry lol but yeah she always tells me that she doesnt like her breast or her weight and that her breast are to small when they arent, as we cuddle naked all the time, she has never taken her shirt off but she lets me feel on her breast. she lets my hands rome freely as we cuddle but as soon as I touch her tummy or breast she places her hands n mine n makes me move very slowly and anytime she feels my hands go inside she moves my hands away. I mean... I pretty much know what her body looks like from head to toe but only from the touch of my hands but not every single detail then.

    she gets very pissed anytime we r about to have sex when I touch a light or even ask a question about y dont we ever have sex n the light ever.

    Anyways its been getting very frustrating seeing her not comfitable around me. Before we offically got together she was always complementing my body but as soon as we get together, her insecuries have her calling me conceited n over confident of myself. let me stop talkin before m question becomes an answer lol well yeah I dont know what to do to make her comfirtable letting me see her n the light and without a shirt when we have sex.

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    Celeste65 at 10/14/2015 10:54:23 AM
    With the man I'm currently dating, it was after two dates.
    YIKES.
    It had been 3 years since I'd had sex...real sex.  (The kind that doesn't involve me and a toy.)
    I have been unable to orgasm, because I am unsure of his true feelings for me.
    That is the way it always is.  I can't reach the "O" until I know that he LOVES me, which if it happens between us, will be a long way off.
    He is a great guy, I'm really into him, the feeling seems to be mutual, but I regret jumping the gun.
    I can see how men can have casual sex just to get off, no strings attached.  I can't do it.  I tried it once after my divorce, and ended up feeling used and empty.
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    CarmenClas at 1/18/2016 5:02:56 AM
    Hello to Everyone in our forum. In my personal experience it has worked for me to get intimate when I feel confortable with him staying with me or move on. I make my own pleasure and how I feel my priority. I have needs and sometimes I am not into the long term thing. Times are changing, values are changing many men and women are into the casual thing, poliamorous etc, I do protect myself and watch for the signs he is giving me and make my decisions. For me took some time but now I am more solid in what make me feel good with less regrets. Thanks
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    EmMainlove at 1/24/2017 11:57:08 AM
    This isnt really a reply its a cry for help im new at this and i dont know how to work it yet but my names Emma im on long distance terms with my boyfriend i feel he is loosing intrest cause he dosent text and call like before whenever i tell him hes different he starts an argument. A while ago i called him  and he didnt pick up i sent him a text amd i called back  he was talking to someone else and claimed it was his mum i feel so unimportant now . does he still love me what should i do
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    Zan at 5/4/2017 9:06:56 PM
    Hi Lauren,please help me...I met this guy I like last week (7 days ago)...43 yrs of age, divorcee . I'm 39 this yr, never married, have a 18 yr old boy. so we went out on a date a day after I met him, ok the date went well, connected n all, we talked ... so once we were done, he took me home...got to the parking n talked about stuff...all of a sudden he was smooching me , felt good but stooped as he was getting too excited so we figured let's have coffee but I think that's where I lost control of the situation...after coffee...we were kiss smooching again, n we ended up having sex even though I was not completely ready for it . it was the best sex I ever had in my life. He left in the early morning...saying he had to go home to sleep a bit n then go to church the same morning He messaged me via whatsapp the next day. no calls or anything. He has actually said a handful of things. does not communicate much, so ,2 days ago, I managed to get him to tell me if the one night we spent togather meant anything at all..his response was he still looks forward to meeting up again, he told not to panic he does not do one night stands n stuff.... He had told me he had a tummy issue this whole week busy flushing it out so that was the only set back, I understood. my problem is so much happened in one night n he does not communicate still. like yesterday...no word from him at all. please help with advice, I really like him n want an exclusive relationship
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    Plumber131 at 2/28/2018 2:37:59 PM
    Hi Lauren my name is Adrian age 30 I need your help I don't get much luck with woman i like and I feel left out and loney can't understand why girls don't find me attractive looking and I know I I'm no luck on a night out or tinder what the problem
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    Flick adams at 5/3/2018 11:04:15 AM
    Hi Adrian. My names flick don't be so hard on yourself there is someone out there don't give up.
    If tinda isn't  working try just going out relax have fun and you'll be surprised who u might  meet as I've heard when u least expect something (bam) its right there.
    Enjoy have fun gd luck

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    Flick adams at 5/4/2018 5:08:28 AM
    Hi

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