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    First guy in a year and a half
    Brittttanyyyxo at 3/7/2018 10:19:10 AM
    I got divorced Oct 2016. Dating hasn't been in the picture since. I finally met this guy and he's perfect. So I've been talking to this guy for two months now. The connection that we have is so different. We both have said it. He's a complete catch and just thinking about him  makes my whole body numb. He's been amazing and supportive and I know he likes me. We've hung out. Well over the past weekend I made the mistake of being 'dramatic' and asking if I could see him even though he said no. After that he stated that he's questioning everything. I've begged him for another chance to show him that's not me (it really isn't, my anxiety has been through the roof lately). Since then he said he just needs time but still continutes to snapchat me. We don't talk on the phone or text like we use to. But the snapchats are constant. I'm trying to put in all of the effort I can to show him that I am interested and I'm not crazy. I've even asked him to coffee for a week out and he said "Sure!" .. What are my odds at possibly getting him to give me a chance? Or is he most likely going to friendzone me? He's not talking to me like he use to which really worries me. But I'm still continuing to push forward and show him that I'm interested and I'm really trying to make an effort. Help!
     
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    First guy in a year and a half
    mbfromboston at 3/22/2018 1:57:18 PM
    Read mars and venus on a date.

    It's not your job to win him over.  It's your job to be receptive to what he has to offer.  Step back and give him the chance to chase and pursue you...and if he doesn't then he's not the guy for you.
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    First guy in a year and a half
    Jarvis99 at 7/16/2018 6:19:05 PM
    Well writing. Thank you mate. 
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    First guy in a year and a half
    choicesinhealth at 12/23/2018 10:43:55 AM
    It sounds like you like him more than he likes you.  Asking to spend time together should not throw someone into a tail spin.  You deserve to be happy, this is probably not the right person for you.
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    First guy in a year and a half
    Lucy2281 at 1/7/2019 11:12:17 AM
    I think you just need to calm yourself and get grounded again. I’ve started dating again and I’m finding my emotions are going crazy and I need to keep taking a step back to think. 

    If if you do get to see him again, calm it all down and get back to getting to know him in a friendly way rather than investing loads of emotion. The emotions can come back again later. Most importantly, be you.
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