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    My partner is being horrible to me
    rachey23 at 1/8/2019 5:30:22 PM
    My man and I have been together for 3 and a half years. We’re currently backpacking and away from both our home countries and support networks. 
    He suffers from anger outbursts when he feels he’s failing me which on more than one occasion has threatened my safety. The anger had been controlled for a couple of years until recently he started showing it again. He completely changes personality from the kind gentleman he is to someone who wants to “destroy”. We have been working together at a restaurant for the last month and have come a cross a few hurdles. My partner has a natural flirtatious behaviour and I have spoken to him about how it makes me feel and we have made plans on how to prevent situations from happening. We made a plan to meet in a bathroom at work whenever we need to quickly discuss and mend something at work. This would only need less than 5 minutes so we don’t let his anger build and I go home feeling concerned about my safety. Yesterday we Stuck to the plan but unfortunately our toilet meetups required more than two occasions as he was quite tired and was hurting me without thinking. The last time we spoke he switched into angry man as he felt he failed me. He  scared me, ran out of the bathroom and he won’t talk to me since. I spent the night in the lobby of the backpackers writing blogs on my laptop then came back just to sleep. He has ignored me since, slammed doors and only spoke to me to demand the internet password. Frightened to speak to him I wrote a heartfelt message to him on a piece of paper to let him know I care and I want to work things out. Without even looking at it he ripped it up and put it straight in the bin. 
    What do I do? I feel so sad that we’re not okay, but I don’t know what to do being so far away from loved ones.
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