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    Relationship rewind
    Heartsick72 at 1/11/2019 1:47:34 PM
    Right  before Christmas my girlfriend, who I live with, said she wants to take time for herself to make herself happy. She has a distant relationship with her daughter that she wants to mend, and there are other issues that she will not tell me about. 
    We’ve been together for just under two years. It was love at first sight, and we both knew that we had found exactly what we had been looking for. About eight months ago we began to talk about me moving in with her. At the time I lived 150 miles away.  So I begin studying to become a real estate agent, quit my job, and moved in. I lived off of my savings for several months, and my realty business never got off the ground. So as of three months ago I was out of job, out of savings, and definitely getting down on myself. She was very supportive through this whole process up until my savings ran out. I have been able to find part time work to at least  stay ahead of most of my bills. She was allowing me to live rent free until I get back on my feet and it seemed as though neither of us were too worried because we knew eventually something will come along. Almost like clockwork when my savings ran out she began to get very distant and treating me differently. In October after I had been out of work for almost a month,  she asked me to move out. She said she didn’t feel the excitement in the relationship anymore, and wanted to work on building a relationship with her children more. Within three hours she changed her mind and said that we would be able to work things out. She was better for about a week. Then begin to get distant again. Thanksgiving weekend she asked me to move out again and said she did not want to be in a serious relationship with anyone, that she wanted to focus her time and energy on her children, and that there were other issues that she didn’t want to talk about.  She also said that she had to focus on making herself happy, and that she could not make me happy until she was at a good place. I left with the intention of giving her a couple of days without me, and I start planning on moving out and figuring out my next step in my life. The next morning she sent me a text and asked me to come home because she could not live without me. I came home, we talked and she said that we would be able to work through this together. Once again,  after about a week she became distant again. The Friday before Christmas I asked her if things are all right, she said no, but she still wanted me to move out. Once again she said that she did not want to be in a serious relationship with anyone but that she would not force me to move out into the street, she would give me time to find a job and find a place. I left for the weekend, stayed at a friends place for Christmas and gave her four days away from me. When I came back, her mood is improved she seeled happier, And she even asked me to spend time with her at home instead of locking myself up in a different part of the house. We slept in the same bed almost every night, we’ve been intimate on more than one occasion since then,  and I assume that she was happier knowing that I was going to be moving out eventually and that time and space apart would be good for us. But over the last week she’s become very secretive, I have never looked at her phone, because I’ve always respected her privacy. But I have no notice that she has a security code on your phone, and at certain times when a text comes she will grab her phone immediately and even leave the room. I asked her if she was seeing someone else and she said no.  She said she’s been extremely busy with the new committee that she had been on, which I know to be true. But the other night I woke up at midnight and she was partially sitting up in bed on her phone. As I begin to roll over and look at her she propped her pillow up so that I could not see her phone. I became angry, without saying a word I got up and went downstairs and slept in another bedroom. The next morning, she very cheerful he asked me if I had been snoring or if she had been snoring.  I said no, when I woke up at midnight you were on your phone and you were clearly trying to hide it from me. I came to the realize Asian that if were no longer in a relationship I should not be sleeping in the same bed with you. She became angry once again stated that she has not been talking to anyone else, invited me to look at her phone messages like I wouldn’t know that she could delete them. We talked for a little while, and I told her of my fears of being alone and that once I gave her the space and time that she would want to she would just end the relationship.  She’s not the type of person to be a cheater, or at least I wouldn’t of thought so. She is the most wonderful woman I’ve ever met in my life. She’s honest and caring, and at this point I’m just not sure what to do so now I will be moving back away 150 miles to give her her space with the hope that her time and space away then we will be able to rebuild the relationship. My friends and family have all told me that they believe she’s cheating on me, but there’s absolutely no way of getting any proof. I still don’t want to believe it to be true. And I don’t know that it is true. But the suspension has been eating me alive for the last week. No I’m going to concentrate on making myself better, but if there’s anyway I can salvage this relationship I need to try
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    Relationship rewind
    Heartsick72 at 1/11/2019 1:53:30 PM
    Sorry about the grammatical errors. I was using voice text.
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