Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus is now the best-selling relationship book of all time...
And the publishers didn’t want it. 🤯
Even though John Gray had been successfully teaching his revolutionary approach to love and relationships for over six years, agents, talk show hosts, and booksellers weren’t interested because it was too “sexist” — no matter how much the advice could help both sexes.
So John got scrappy. Through years of self-publishing, self-promotion, and sharing his wisdom, Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus hit the New York Times Bestseller’s list — and then didn’t budge for years.
In fact, USA Today named it as one of the Top 10 Most Influential Books of the last quarter century.
But sharing his proven lessons didn’t stop there.
(Not even close.)
After writing an additional 20 bestselling books on relationships, John Gray has distilled decades of relationship research into the most relevant and concrete guide for modern love, and the next quarter century.
It’s called Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Today’s Complex World.
And it’s the new playbook for empowered partners & powerful love.
It’s where you’ll find the most cutting-edge analyses, truest representation of men and women today, and practical solutions to our new challenges.
Beyond Mars and Venus isn’t born in idealism that just sounds nice, but rather concrete science, hormones, and brain chemistry. It’s about focusing on the solutions that work with us — not against us — and finally bring us fully together.
Ready to step into healthier & happier love?Yes, I need this new playbook!
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“No one delivers greater wisdom about relationships than John Gray. In Beyond Mars and Venus, he provides much-needed guidance as to how to navigate the path of love in complicated times like these.”
- Marianne Williamson, #1 New York Times bestselling author
"A true expert understands that as times change, tried-and-true methods must be reexamined and updated. John Gray not only embraces the unique challenges in modern relationships, but his tools and wisdom are every bit as helpful today as ever."
- Jack Canfield, New York Times bestselling author of the Chicken Soup for the Soul series
“I LOVE THIS BOOK. How do we achieve true love in today’s stressful, chaotic world? . . . Becoming comfortable in our new roles allows for each of us to be seen, heard, and affectionate with one another. Being able to express these inherent sides of ourselves clearly determines our strengths and need for stress management and choosing balance. Greater intimacy and deep love are the gifts.”
- Suzanne Somers
The Full Mars Venus Series
A compendium of relationship research, finally at your fingertips.
Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: A Practical Guide for Improving Communication & Getting What You Want in Your Relationships
Mars Venus on a Date: A Guide to Navigating the 5 Stages of Dating to Create a Loving and Lasting Relationship
Mars and Venus Starting Over: A Practical Guide for Finding Love Again After a Painful Breakup, Divorce, or the Loss of a Loved One
Mars and Venus Together Forever: Relationship Skills for Lasting Love in Committed Relationships
Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus Book of Days: 365 Inspirations to Enrich Your Relationships
Why Mars and Venus Collide: Improving Relationships by Understanding How Men and Women Cope Differently with Stress
Practical Miracles for Mars & Venus: Nine Principles for Lasting Love, Increasing Success, and Vibrant Health
"OMG! Dr. Gray might has written this book for my husband and I! The stories, the suggestions, the ideas.....all hit home. AND it's working. I would HIGHLY recommend this book to anyone that needs a little pick-me-up in their marriage, something to get you started. I was ready to give up and get out, but this book made both of us realize that we CAN learn to communicate, we can grow closer and we can enjoy all the intimacy that we once had. Thank you Dr. Gray!"
- Patricia C. Amazon Reviewer
“John Gray provides brilliant guidance for the rapidly changing state of gender roles in our relationships. He's required reading for all couples who are serious about growing and thriving in love together.”
- Arielle Ford, author of Turn Your Mate into Your Soulmate
"These are the best books I ever read, and that speaks volumes!I have a lot (about 50 to 100 books) of self-help, Spiritual, relationships books from the best authors, but thus one takes the cake! Dr. Gray does an excellent job explaining everything so well by using bold subtitles and descriptive charts. Yes the guy breaks down relationships down to the science. He tells you about relationships like no other. This man has a message to give to the world!"
- Dee J. Amazon Reviewer
The Business Development Series
Practical tips and tactics for succeeding in the workplace.
How to Get What You Want at Work: A Practical Guide for Improving Communication and Getting results
"It’s time to get smart about Gender Intelligence. If anyone on Earth – or Venus or Mars – can sort out these complex relationships, John Gray can. “Work” your way through these remarkable books!"
- Harvey Mackay, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Swim With The Sharks Without Being Eaten Alive
"Enjoyable and enlightening reads, filled with practical information supported by empirical data, scientific explanations, and dozens of anecdotes that skillfully and warmly reflect gender interactions in our professional and personal lives."
- Valerie Sorbie, Chief Administrative Officer, BMO Capital Markets
"Based on decades of impeccable research and worldwide practice, Work with Me is without a doubt one of the single most important books of the year. To read this book is to invest in building better relationships throughout every area of your life."
- Ivan Misner, Ph.D., NY Times Bestselling author and founder of BNI®
The Self-Development Series
Concrete knowhow for reconnecting with who you are and what you want.
How to Get What You Want and Want What You Have: A Practical and Spiritual Guide to Personal Success
"Recommended by a therapist, these books are very useful and informative. Also very easy to read and understand in small bits, not too deep but still insightful. I need to reorder because I already gave my copy to a friend."
- S.V. Amazon Reviewer
"Highly recommend! These books just changed my life. I recommend it for anyone who wants to have a healthy life."
- Yummi, Amazon Reviewer
"John Gray outlines our unsettled issues that we carry forward from our childhood. Our negative childhood experiences often influence our bad adult decisions. These books help us to understand ourselves better and teach to let go and create happier lives."
- Carolyn Munro, Amazon Reviewer
"A great book for parents seeking to employ positive parenting with their kids. Many of the tools I have already started applying with my 5 yr old son, and it is working. We just need the patience to see the pay-off. I am halfway through it, but I am planning to read it more and more. In my opinion it is a valuable addition to your library."
- Ahlam Amazon Reviewer
"Outstanding resources that will change your life and your relationship with your children. They're a must read for any parent who wants to have the tools to raise a confident child. Ask your kid about some of the suggestions in this book and they will agree with you how one of these approaches would have been more effective than some of the ones you may have resorted to over the years."
- Steve, Amazon Reviewer
"A fresh new approach that really works! John Gray sets forth an easy strategy focused on getting your children to willingly cooperate with you without threats of heavy handed discipline such as yelling, spanking and take-aways. He provides details on why these techniques work as well as examples of how to implement the strategies in various situations. Any time I see or talk with parents having a difficult time with their children, I highly encourage them to buy this book - and READ IT cover to cover. I now utilize the techniques with my young grandchildren and I could not be happier with the results. I just wish this book had been available back when my children were young as it would have saved my wife and I years of grief and discouragement during our child rearing years."
- Mark Rice, Amazon Reviewer
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