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Creating a Secure Attachment Style (Even in Online Dating!) advice: dating advice: relationship john gray

If you thought you’d finally found your match, you know how crushing and confusing it can be if he becomes distant out of the blue.

Out of all the fish in the sea, did you just find the guy who’s running away from commitment and intimacy because he has an avoidant attachment style? Or...

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The 10 Most Romantic Things to Say to Someone You Love advice: relationship john gray lauren gray

“I love you” is one of the most romantic things to say to someone you love. But the truth is, and we’re sure you’ve heard this before, love isn’t just a word, it’s an action. It’s what we do.

Here’s the thing: Communication can “show”...

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How to Get Your Ex Back (a Step by Step Guide) advice: relationship lauren gray

Well, the worst happened. They broke up with you. This is about as painful and confusing as it gets.

I mean, is it really the end or can you reconcile?

I believe this is a beautiful opportunity for greater love and relationship success if you handle it right, and I’m going to prove it to...

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Feeling Needy In Your Relationship? Your Problem Might Be the Solution. advice: dating advice: relationship lauren gray

“The Cool Girl” doesn’t get needy in a relationship.

But where does that leave us?!

He pulls away and, suddenly, it doesn’t matter that you’re a total badass and completely self-sufficient in the workplace... you turn into a “Please don’t leave...

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What to Do When She Asks You to Talk About Your Feelings advice: relationship lauren gray

Everything is fine until she drops the line: “I need you to open up and tell me how you feel.”

Noooooo!!! Everything crawls into slow motion as you realize what she’s asked of you. You do a lingering blink hoping to get saved by the bell or text or natural disaster.

But there...

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Are You Self-Sabotaging Relationships and Your Chance at True Love? advice: dating advice: relationship john gray

If you can’t help but fall in love with men who are already taken, unavailable, and “wrong” for you, you may start to wonder…

Are you destined to stay in this cycle forever?

No, you are not!

In today’s post, I’ll show you why you might be unconsciously...

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6 Steps to Stop an Argument advice: relationship john gray

The scenario: What starts as a simple disagreement escalates into a huge fight. Doors are slammed, harsh words are spoken, and you think: What did I ever see in them?

Once the anger subsides, however, and you see it in the light of day, you can’t help but wonder how the...

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MV Quick Tip: What Makes a Man Attracted to a Woman advice: dating advice: relationship quick tips

If you want to spark or regenerate attraction with a man, today’s MarsVenus Quick Tip is for you!

In love, little things make a big difference. In the day-to-day of your relationship(s), it can feel overwhelming to address all the problems or create all your dreams at once. That's why we...

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Could Giving Space in a Relationship Solve Your Problems? advice: relationship lauren gray

Giving space in a relationship: It feels dangerous. Threatening even.

When you start to feel distance between you - whether it’s cool indifference, physically pulling away, not answering your calls, or full-on irritation - all instincts drive you to bridge the gap immediately.

You have to...

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Does Your Anxious Avoidant Attachment Stand a Chance? advice: dating advice: relationship john gray

When you want more intimacy and your partner seems to avoid it, it can be devastating to your experience of love.

So what does it really take to overcome the “anxious avoidant attachment trap,” and build a healthy, secure relationship that fulfills you?

In this post, you’ll...

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MV Quick Tip: What to Say When He Just Won’t Listen advice: dating advice: relationship quick tips

If you’ve ever shared something with your partner, only to hear his response back and think, “Did he even hear what I said at all?” then today’s Quick Tip is for you.

In love, little things make a big difference. In the day-to-day of your relationship(s), it can feel...

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How to Open Your Heart in Your Relationship advice: relationship lauren gray

Every relationship has ups and downs. But if you can learn how to open your heart and let love in, even when it's hard, your ups will be higher and your downs not so steep.

To be totally fair though: sometimes opening your heart to your partner feels like the most impossible task in the world.

...

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How Being Grateful Can Add New Life to Your Relationship advice: relationship john gray

If you’re looking for ways to increase your romantic feelings, lift your mood, and deepen your relationship, being grateful is the fastest path forward.

When someone gives you a present, you might go “Oh, this feels good.” Well, when you express your appreciation, it also makes...

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MV Quick Tip: How to Instantly Feel More Loved (and Loving) advice: dating advice: relationship quick tips

If you’re struggling to find and create a loving relationship…

Or you’re feeling lost, unsure, or bored in the relationship you’re in now, today’s MarsVenus Quick Tip is for you.

In love, little things make a big difference. In the day-to-day of your...

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5 Ways to Get Your Man into MarsVenus advice: relationship john gray

Many women in relationships today want more from their partners: more romance, intimacy, support, and love. This is what led you here! And you may have read my books or watched my videos, and thought:

“This sounds great! ...But how do I get him to do it too?”

In this post, I’ll...

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MV Quick Tip: When Are You “Good Enough” for Love? advice: dating advice: relationship quick tips

If you want to be the best possible version of yourself for your relationships, today’s MarsVenus Quick Tip is for you.

In love, little things make a big difference. In the day to day of your relationship(s), it can feel overwhelming to address all the problems or create all your dreams at...

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Money and Relationships: The How-to Guide for Peace and Prosperity advice: relationship lauren gray

So, are you the spender or the saver? Money and relationships may be one of the biggest tests for married and long-term couples because usually there’s one of each!

In this area, we confront our differences head-on. We all have values around money: how to spend it, save it, allocate it and...

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The 4 Steps of Building Trust in a Relationship advice: relationship john gray

If you find that building trust in a relationship is hard for you, you’re not alone.

Trust issues are the biggest challenge for women in relationships today — especially because men can seem so inconsistent with their love and attention!

But the number one thing that will make a man...

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He Cheated on Me. Can We Save Our Relationship and Trust Again? advice: relationship lauren gray

The ultimate betrayal. A knife to the heart. He cheated on me.

Can the relationship be saved? Can you ever trust him again? What is a relationship without trust?

Great questions. While your world is falling apart around you, let me shine a light on some answers. In this episode, I’ll share...

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3 Keys to Work-Life Balance for a Happy Marriage advice: relationship john gray

If you’re wondering how to be a good husband and find work-life balance so you can stay productive in your career and have a great relationship, this article is for you.

The fact is that life can be stressful when you’re juggling work, family, and time for yourself too. So how can you...

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MV Quick Tip: When You or Your Partner Are Upset, Do This advice: relationship quick tips

If you’re a woman who feels frustrated that your partner won’t talk about his feelings with you…

OR

If you’re a man who feels like you’re constantly getting blamed or accused…

Today’s MarsVenus Quick Tip is for you.

In love, little things make a big...

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How to Talk About Your Feelings So He Listens advice: relationship lauren gray

It’s easy to not talk about your feelings in a relationship. It’s easy to swallow your voice and let the issues brew.

It’s easy until it feels so hard you’re crying on the phone with your mother just bursting with things to say!

But where does that leave your relationship?...

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Dating Over 50? How to Get the Treatment You Deserve. advice: dating advice: relationship john gray

If you’re a single woman who’s dating over 50, and the men you meet are not bringing enough romance to your dates, this is a post that can help.

The fact is that we all get a little rigid as we age, and that’s natural.

But there is also a biological and psychological explanation...

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Better Goal Setting: John Gray’s 3 Step Process for Achieving More advice: dating advice: relationship advice: wellness john gray

When it comes to goal setting for a New Year, birthday, or other big milestones, it’s fun to dream big and get clear on our plans moving forward.

The problem I find is that there's a lot of advice out there on setting goals that can be very confusing and even ineffective.

So this is a...

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