THE BLOG

You see it coming. He starts getting angry. You want to engage. You want to ask what’s going on. You want to make it right.

So how do you diffuse a man’s anger — whether it’s directed at you or not?

The answer to that question has changed over the years, so it’s important that you know how to help...

Why do men never help out?

It seems the easiest way to show someone you care, right? Jump in and offer help, support, an extra hand…

You would do it for him so why doesn’t he do it for you?

There’s actually a very simple answer to this and it has nothing to do with how much he cares about you!

I...

If you’re a woman in a relationship with an emotionally unavailable partner, it can feel frustrating and oftentimes, hurtful.

You may even think that he’s shutting you out because he’s mad at you — or worse — doesn’t love you anymore!

But when a man isn’t sharing his feelings, rest assured, it doe...

If you’re looking for the simplest way to get more love and attention from your partner, you’ll want to read today’s MarsVenus Quick Tip!

In love, little things make a big difference. In the day-to-day of your relationship, it can feel overwhelming to address all the problems or create all your dre...

When we’re in a relationship, we feel responsible for each other and take on each other's pain. That’s empathy, right?

Their bad day becomes your bad day, their upset upsets you and so on. That’s what love is, right?

Or is it? The pattern I just described is actually what I call the “Dark Intimacy...

He was such a wonderful man and partner in the beginning but now he’s slunk into patterns and habits you don’t like. It's hard to open your heart and be attracted to the man he’s settled into. If you're wondering how to bring out the best in a man so that he can be the partner you remember and love,...

Have you ever been hurt in a relationship to the point where you’re hanging onto negative emotions and you can’t seem to get past what happened?

Are you wishing you could share these difficult feelings with your partner or loved one but you don’t know how or you’re afraid you’ll make it worse?

The...

There’s so much to love about social media.

It allows us to stay connected with family and friends, see what they’re up to, and enjoy photos of loved ones and their vacations — not to mention the funny videos people love to share!

There is definitely a healthy and fulfilling side of social media, ...

If you’ve been feeling like it’s YOU who’s carrying the burden of all the problems in your relationship, today’s MarsVenus Quick Tip is for you.

In love, little things make a big difference. In the day-to-day of your relationship(s), it can feel overwhelming to address all the problems or create al...

Fighting in relationships can get out of hand so easily.

You just want to communicate about an issue, a challenge, open up and share but very quickly, you can trigger a man’s anger and he can transform from your loving partner into a mean and competitive person.

And if you push, he might even say ...

Affairs are painful. They can feel like deep and terrible betrayals.

They shatter the romantic myth that if someone loves me, I am the only person they could ever want.

This blog explains what to do if your partner cheats on you and what steps you can take to avoid an affair in your relationship.

If you’re wondering how to easily come back to love when things feel challenging in your relationship, you’ll love today’s MarsVenus Quick Tip!

In love, little things make a big difference. In the day-to-day of your relationship, it can feel overwhelming to address all the problems or create all yo...

Communication. It’s typically at the top of couples’ lists — especially women’s — when it comes to relationship issues.

If most everyone wants to communicate better with their partner, why is it so difficult?

It comes down to this: Men and women give and receive communication differently. 

In the...

As a woman, learning how to make peace with Cave Time is one of the most important things you can do to set yourself up for long-term happiness in your relationship.

But, it’s not always easy. When men pull away, it can leave you feeling confused, frustrated, and hurt.

Even if you know that he nee...

If you ever wonder if you’re asking too much of your partner…

OR

If they’re asking too much of you...

Today’s MarsVenus Quick Tip is for you.

In love, little things make a big difference. In the day-to-day of your relationship, it can feel overwhelming to address all the problems or create all y...

The passion was electric in the beginning! You couldn’t keep your hands off each other. It was so easy and natural.

But now it’s gone (or at least fizzling).

And as cool as you are on the outside, inside, you’re desperate for someone to tell you how the heck to bring that back.

I’m going to show ...

If you thought you’d finally found your match, you know how crushing and confusing it can be if he becomes distant out of the blue.

Out of all the fish in the sea, did you just find the guy who’s running away from commitment and intimacy because he has an avoidant attachment style? Or is there some...

Well, the worst happened. They broke up with you. This is about as painful and confusing as it gets.

I mean, is it really the end or can you reconcile?

I believe this is a beautiful opportunity for greater love and relationship success if you handle it right, and I’m going to prove it to you.

In ...

If you can’t help but fall in love with men who are already taken, unavailable, and “wrong” for you, you may start to wonder…

Are you destined to stay in this cycle forever?

No, you are not!

In today’s post, I’ll show you why you might be unconsciously self-sabotaging relationships, how to stop t...

If you’ve ever shared something with your partner, only to hear his response back and think, “Did he even hear what I said at all?” then today’s Quick Tip is for you.

In love, little things make a big difference. In the day-to-day of your relationship(s), it can feel overwhelming to address all the...

Every relationship has ups and downs. But if you can learn how to open your heart and let love in, even when it's hard, your ups will be higher and your downs not so steep.

To be totally fair though: sometimes opening your heart to your partner feels like the most impossible task in the world.

May...

If you’re looking for ways to increase your romantic feelings, lift your mood, and deepen your relationship, being grateful is the fastest path forward.

When someone gives you a present, you might go “Oh, this feels good.” Well, when you express your appreciation, it also makes the other person fee...

If you’re struggling to find and create a loving relationship…

Or you’re feeling lost, unsure, or bored in the relationship you’re in now, today’s MarsVenus Quick Tip is for you.

In love, little things make a big difference. In the day-to-day of your relationship(s), it can feel overwhelming to ad...

Many women in relationships today want more from their partners: more romance, intimacy, support, and love. This is what led you here! And you may have read my books or watched my videos, and thought:

“This sounds great! ...But how do I get him to do it too?”

In this post, I’ll share the 5 things ...