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Why Men Don’t Give Reassurance (and How to Get Some in 3 Easy Steps!) advice: dating advice: relationship lauren gray

Can we agree on this? After a fight, it’s nice to get a little reassurance that “we’re going to be okay.” After an emotionally revealing conversation, it’s good to be reminded that he loves you no matter what. When he’s acting withdrawn for some weird reason,...

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How to Diffuse a Man's Anger advice: dating advice: relationship john gray

You see it coming. He starts getting angry. You want to engage. You want to ask what’s going on. You want to make it right.

So how do you diffuse a man’s anger — whether it’s directed at you or not?

The answer to that question has changed over the years, so it’s...

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Why Men Never Help Out and What to Do About It advice: relationship lauren gray

Why do men never help out?

It seems the easiest way to show someone you care, right? Jump in and offer help, support, an extra hand…

You would do it for him so why doesn’t he do it for you?

There’s actually a very simple answer to this and it has nothing to do with how much he...

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What to Do If You Have an Emotionally Unavailable Partner advice: relationship john gray

If you’re a woman in a relationship with an emotionally unavailable partner, it can feel frustrating and oftentimes, hurtful.

You may even think that he’s shutting you out because he’s mad at you — or worse — doesn’t love you anymore!

But when a man isn’t...

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MV Quick Tip: Give Less to Receive More advice: relationship quick tips

If you’re looking for the simplest way to get more love and attention from your partner, you’ll want to read today’s MarsVenus Quick Tip!

In love, little things make a big difference. In the day-to-day of your relationship, it can feel overwhelming to address all the problems or...

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How to Support Your Partner When They Have a Bad Day. It’s Not What You Think! advice: dating advice: relationship lauren gray

When we’re in a relationship, we feel responsible for each other and take on each other's pain. That’s empathy, right?

Their bad day becomes your bad day, their upset upsets you and so on. That’s what love is, right?

Or is it? The pattern I just described is actually what I call...

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MV Quick Tip: How to Bring Out the Best In Him advice: relationship quick tips

He was such a wonderful man and partner in the beginning but now he’s slunk into patterns and habits you don’t like. It's hard to open your heart and be attracted to the man he’s settled into. If you're wondering how to bring out the best in a man so that he can be the partner...

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The Feeling Letter: How to Communicate Difficult Feelings to a Loved One advice: relationship john gray

Have you ever been hurt in a relationship to the point where you’re hanging onto negative emotions and you can’t seem to get past what happened?

Are you wishing you could share these difficult feelings with your partner or loved one but you don’t know how or you’re afraid...

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How Social Media Threatens Your Mental Health and Ruins Relationships advice: relationship advice: wellness john gray

There’s so much to love about social media.

It allows us to stay connected with family and friends, see what they’re up to, and enjoy photos of loved ones and their vacations — not to mention the funny videos people love to share!

There is definitely a healthy and fulfilling...

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MV Quick Tip: How to Balance the “Burden” in a Relationship advice: relationship quick tips

If you’ve been feeling like it’s YOU who’s carrying the burden of all the problems in your relationship, today’s MarsVenus Quick Tip is for you.

In love, little things make a big difference. In the day-to-day of your relationship(s), it can feel overwhelming to address all...

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Why Men Fight Dirty in Arguments (and How to Take the High Road) advice: relationship lauren gray

Fighting in relationships can get out of hand so easily.

You just want to communicate about an issue, a challenge, open up and share but very quickly, you can trigger a man’s anger and he can transform from your loving partner into a mean and competitive person.

And if you push, he might...

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Can a Relationship Recover From Cheating? advice: relationship john gray

Affairs are painful. They can feel like deep and terrible betrayals.

They shatter the romantic myth that if someone loves me, I am the only person they could ever want.

This blog explains what to do if your partner cheats on you and what steps you can take to avoid an affair in your relationship....

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MV Quick Tip: Boost Romance Using This One Approach advice: dating advice: relationship quick tips

Are you wondering how to boost romance in a relationship or spark a new romance? Then you’ll love today’s MarsVenus quick tip!

In love, little things make a big difference. In the day-to-day of your relationship(s), it can feel overwhelming to address all the problems or create all...

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Resentment In Relationships? Clear It Away With This Secret! advice: relationship lauren gray

Resentment in relationships: it’s not just for unhappy couples that are bitter and unsuited for each other.

It’s fair game for ALL of us at times. Givers, Lovers, Nurturers, Heroes — where you at?

You know the feeling you get when you’re giving so much to your relationship...

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How to Take Narcissism Out of Your Relationship advice: dating advice: relationship john gray

Be honest: Is there a pattern in your relationships?

Do you notice that your partner tends to be more selfish while you are more giving?

Maybe you even relate to being an empath who attracts narcissists?

The truth is this kind of merry-go-round of unfulfilling relationships can make you lose...

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MV Quick Tip: How to Weather Relationship Ups and Downs advice: relationship quick tips

If you’re wondering how to easily come back to love when things feel challenging in your relationship, you’ll love today’s MarsVenus Quick Tip!

In love, little things make a big difference. In the day-to-day of your relationship, it can feel overwhelming to address all the...

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How to Talk to a Man So He Will Listen advice: relationship john gray

Communication. It’s typically at the top of couples’ lists — especially women’s — when it comes to relationship issues.

If most everyone wants to communicate better with their partner, why is it so difficult?

It comes down to this: Men and women give and receive...

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Losing Yourself in a Relationship advice: relationship lauren gray

Do you find yourself losing yourself in a relationship? Sacrificing your needs and who you are to please your partner?

Are you growing steadily less confident and more frustrated in your relationship… and you just can’t help yourself?

It’s so easy to do this. Like SO easy. And...

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How to Make Peace with Cave Time in 3 Steps advice: relationship john gray

As a woman, learning how to make peace with Cave Time is one of the most important things you can do to set yourself up for long-term happiness in your relationship.

But, it’s not always easy. When men pull away, it can leave you feeling confused, frustrated, and hurt.

Even if you know that...

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MV Quick Tip: When Your Partner Can’t Meet Your Needs... advice: relationship quick tips

If you ever wonder if you’re asking too much of your partner…

OR

If they’re asking too much of you...

Today’s MarsVenus Quick Tip is for you.

In love, little things make a big difference. In the day-to-day of your relationship, it can feel overwhelming to address all the...

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The Rubberband: A Simple Yet Little Known Way to Light Your Passion On Fire! advice: relationship lauren gray

The passion was electric in the beginning! You couldn’t keep your hands off each other. It was so easy and natural.

But now it’s gone (or at least fizzling).

And as cool as you are on the outside, inside, you’re desperate for someone to tell you how the heck to bring that back.

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Creating a Secure Attachment Style (Even in Online Dating!) advice: dating advice: relationship john gray

If you thought you’d finally found your match, you know how crushing and confusing it can be if he becomes distant out of the blue.

Out of all the fish in the sea, did you just find the guy who’s running away from commitment and intimacy because he has an avoidant attachment style? Or...

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The 10 Most Romantic Things to Say to Someone You Love advice: relationship john gray lauren gray

“I love you” is one of the most romantic things to say to someone you love. But the truth is, and we’re sure you’ve heard this before, love isn’t just a word, it’s an action. It’s what we do.

Here’s the thing: Communication can “show”...

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How to Get Your Ex Back (a Step by Step Guide) advice: relationship lauren gray

Well, the worst happened. They broke up with you. This is about as painful and confusing as it gets.

I mean, is it really the end or can you reconcile?

I believe this is a beautiful opportunity for greater love and relationship success if you handle it right, and I’m going to prove it to...

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