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Do You Have Unreasonable Relationship Expectations? advice: dating advice: relationship john gray

In the beginning, there is excitement, ease, and flow. He asks questions. He plans dates. He makes sweet gestures of love and appreciation.

You see so much potential for the relationship to grow!
Then, something shifts. You start to question, did I pick the wrong guy?
What changed?

In this post, I...

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Men and Emotions: 3 Things Women Need to Know advice: dating advice: relationship lauren gray

You sense something is wrong, but he won’t tell you about it.

You encourage him to share his feelings, but all you get is radio silence. He’s such a Cave Man!

You’re starting to question everything you’ve ever done or said to him: Is it me? Have I done something wrong? Is...

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Why Men Don’t Give Reassurance (and How to Get Some in 3 Easy Steps!) advice: dating advice: relationship lauren gray

Can we agree on this? After a fight, it’s nice to get a little reassurance that “we’re going to be okay.” After an emotionally revealing conversation, it’s good to be reminded that he loves you no matter what. When he’s acting withdrawn for some weird reason,...

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How to Diffuse a Man's Anger advice: dating advice: relationship john gray

You see it coming. He starts getting angry. You want to engage. You want to ask what’s going on. You want to make it right.

So how do you diffuse a man’s anger — whether it’s directed at you or not?

The answer to that question has changed over the years, so it’s...

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How to Support Your Partner When They Have a Bad Day. It’s Not What You Think! advice: dating advice: relationship lauren gray

When we’re in a relationship, we feel responsible for each other and take on each other's pain. That’s empathy, right?

Their bad day becomes your bad day, their upset upsets you and so on. That’s what love is, right?

Or is it? The pattern I just described is actually what I call...

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How Do I Meet a High Quality Man? advice: dating john gray

Are you ready for a loving relationship but finding it hard to meet a high-quality man?

Someone you can connect with, feel attraction to, and grow in love with?

I hear this question a lot, so you’re not alone!

The good news is there are some simple shifts you can make to attract a quality...

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Is He Into Me or Not? I’m Getting Whiplash Here! advice: dating lauren gray

Mr. Cool. He “says” he’s not ready for a relationship, but he’s all over you! Flirty, sweet, kind, attentive, thoughtful, boyfriendy, charming…

And then, silent, cold, indifferent.

What is up with this guy? And why do men do this?

In this episode and blog, I’m...

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What to Do If You Never Feel Sexual Attraction for Men You’re Compatible With advice: dating john gray

Are you having a hard time finding a partner that you’re both compatible with AND feel strong sexual attraction for?

Well, you’re not the only one!

I hear this a lot from women who say they’re never attracted to “nice guys” or that the guys they do have strong sexual...

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MV Quick Tip: Boost Romance Using This One Approach advice: dating advice: relationship quick tips

Are you wondering how to boost romance in a relationship or spark a new romance? Then you’ll love today’s MarsVenus quick tip!

In love, little things make a big difference. In the day-to-day of your relationship(s), it can feel overwhelming to address all the problems or create all...

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How to Take Narcissism Out of Your Relationship advice: dating advice: relationship john gray

Be honest: Is there a pattern in your relationships?

Do you notice that your partner tends to be more selfish while you are more giving?

Maybe you even relate to being an empath who attracts narcissists?

The truth is this kind of merry-go-round of unfulfilling relationships can make you lose...

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Do Soulmates Exist? (And How to Connect With Yours!) advice: dating lauren gray

Dating is exhausting, and I’m sick of it! Are you there yet? Are you even wondering, “Do soulmates exist?” at this point?

They do, by the way. And in this post, I’m going to show you how you can get your hands on one!

You’ll learn who your soulmate is, how to...

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Creating a Secure Attachment Style (Even in Online Dating!) advice: dating advice: relationship john gray

If you thought you’d finally found your match, you know how crushing and confusing it can be if he becomes distant out of the blue.

Out of all the fish in the sea, did you just find the guy who’s running away from commitment and intimacy because he has an avoidant attachment style? Or...

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5 Stages of Dating advice: dating john gray

Whether you are starting over, just starting to date, or you’re pursuing a relationship with someone special, one thing doesn’t seem to change: the journey from first date to marriage is full of unknown pitfalls.

Although dating can be confusing, painful, and full of challenges, the...

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Feeling Needy In Your Relationship? Your Problem Might Be the Solution. advice: dating advice: relationship lauren gray

“The Cool Girl” doesn’t get needy in a relationship.

But where does that leave us?!

He pulls away and, suddenly, it doesn’t matter that you’re a total badass and completely self-sufficient in the workplace... you turn into a “Please don’t leave...

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Are You Self-Sabotaging Relationships and Your Chance at True Love? advice: dating advice: relationship john gray

If you can’t help but fall in love with men who are already taken, unavailable, and “wrong” for you, you may start to wonder…

Are you destined to stay in this cycle forever?

No, you are not!

In today’s post, I’ll show you why you might be unconsciously...

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We Had a Great Date! Why Won’t He Text Me Back? advice: dating lauren gray

Being in a relationship is my favorite thing in the world! Dating? Not so much.

Some dates are good, plenty are awkward, some are bad, but the worst — I mean the WORST — is when you have a great date and then…

CRICKETS.

He never calls or texts you back.

Without MarsVenus gender...

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MV Quick Tip: What Makes a Man Attracted to a Woman advice: dating advice: relationship quick tips

If you want to spark or regenerate attraction with a man, today’s MarsVenus Quick Tip is for you!

In love, little things make a big difference. In the day-to-day of your relationship(s), it can feel overwhelming to address all the problems or create all your dreams at once. That's why we...

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Does Your Anxious Avoidant Attachment Stand a Chance? advice: dating advice: relationship john gray

When you want more intimacy and your partner seems to avoid it, it can be devastating to your experience of love.

So what does it really take to overcome the “anxious avoidant attachment trap,” and build a healthy, secure relationship that fulfills you?

In this post, you’ll...

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MV Quick Tip: What to Say When He Just Won’t Listen advice: dating advice: relationship quick tips

If you’ve ever shared something with your partner, only to hear his response back and think, “Did he even hear what I said at all?” then today’s Quick Tip is for you.

In love, little things make a big difference. In the day-to-day of your relationship(s), it can feel...

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How to Attract Women When You're Unemployed advice: dating john gray

Being unemployed presents an array of challenges. As a man, you may be wondering how to make yourself attractive to women when you’re out of work.

There's a lot of confusion out there for single men today because some women are making more money than men. Men often ask: Does that make me...

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MV Quick Tip: How to Keep His Attention (Without Scaring Him Away!) advice: dating quick tips

If you’re wondering how to keep a man that you like interested in you, you’ll love this Quick Tip!

In love, little things make a big difference. In the day-to-day of your relationship(s), it can feel overwhelming to address all the problems or create all your dreams at once. That's...

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MV Quick Tip: How to Instantly Feel More Loved (and Loving) advice: dating advice: relationship quick tips

If you’re struggling to find and create a loving relationship…

Or you’re feeling lost, unsure, or bored in the relationship you’re in now, today’s MarsVenus Quick Tip is for you.

In love, little things make a big difference. In the day-to-day of your...

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MV Quick Tip: When Are You “Good Enough” for Love? advice: dating advice: relationship quick tips

If you want to be the best possible version of yourself for your relationships, today’s MarsVenus Quick Tip is for you.

In love, little things make a big difference. In the day to day of your relationship(s), it can feel overwhelming to address all the problems or create all your dreams at...

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Dating Over 50? How to Get the Treatment You Deserve. advice: dating advice: relationship john gray

If you’re a single woman who’s dating over 50, and the men you meet are not bringing enough romance to your dates, this is a post that can help.

The fact is that we all get a little rigid as we age, and that’s natural.

But there is also a biological and psychological explanation...

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