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Dating Over 50? How to Get the Treatment You Deserve. advice: dating advice: relationship john gray

If you’re a single woman who’s dating over 50, and the men you meet are not bringing enough romance to your dates, this is a post that can help.

The fact is that we all get a little rigid as we age, and that’s natural.

But there is also a biological and psychological explanation...

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Better Goal Setting: John Gray’s 3 Step Process for Achieving More advice: dating advice: relationship advice: wellness john gray

When it comes to goal setting for a New Year, birthday, or other big milestones, it’s fun to dream big and get clear on our plans moving forward.

The problem I find is that there's a lot of advice out there on setting goals that can be very confusing and even ineffective.

So this is a...

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Breaking Down the "No Label Relationship" advice: dating advice: relationship lauren gray

Are you in a no label relationship? You know, having fun, getting close, keeping it casual and cool without “putting a label on it?”

It’s easy and undemanding until you run into a problem.

What if they don’t call you back? What if they start hanging out with someone else?...

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How to Talk to a Woman: The Conversation Skill That Makes You Attractive advice: dating john gray

If you’re single, dating, and haven’t yet met the right person, feeling confident that you know how to talk to a woman on dates is essential.

Right now, you may be doubting that there are women out there who want to have a real relationship or worried that they simply don’t want...

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How to Deal With a Jealous Boyfriend advice: dating advice: relationship lauren gray

Are you wondering how to deal with a jealous boyfriend?

You’re in the right place!

It’s easy to second guess yourself and think, “Is it me? Am I doing something wrong? Am I causing his reactions?”

And I want to stop you right there. This is not your fault.

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How to Get Out of the Friend Zone advice: dating lauren gray

So many men and women ask me how to get out of the friend zone.

You’re in a relationship but it’s not the kind of relationship you really want. You want them to see you as a romantic partner. You want them to cross that huge divide called “just friends” and make out with...

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Tired of Dating? Here's How to Get Excited Again advice: dating john gray

If you’re a single woman feeling tired of dating because there’s only so many “failed relationships” you can take before you throw in the towel, this post is for you.

Dating can take a lot of out of you, especially with all the other things in your life that need...

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How to Get a Girl Out of Your League: The 3-Minute Secret advice: dating lauren gray

Are you wondering how to get a girl out of your league? Because the ones you fall for are always are, right?

You dig down deep for courage, you make your move (usually some kind of text, email, dating, or social media app) and then…

Crickets. Or worse, she turns you down directly. Ouch.

...

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Want More in Relationships? Here’s How to Get It advice: dating advice: relationship john gray

All kinds of people come to my seminars and talks around the world, motivated by one simple thing:

They all want more in relationships, but “more” typically means different things to a woman than a man.

When I ask a woman if she wants more in her relationship, she will usually light...

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Do Our Differences Mean He's Not Relationship Material? advice: dating lauren gray

It’s hard finding Mr. Right.

You hear messages like, “Don’t settle for less,” and suddenly, you feel empowered to have high standards for a partner.

But then you hear messages like, “Don’t wait for Mr. Perfect; there’s no such thing,” and it’s...

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Is He Losing Interest? Quick! Do This Before You Lose Him. advice: dating advice: relationship lauren gray

Those quiet moments when you get really honest with yourself and you realize…he’s losing interest.

Terrifying!!! I’ve been there. Everything is great until he pulls away from cuddling, he doesn’t say sweet things anymore, your sex life is suffering, and you’re...

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How Do I Approach a Woman I Find Attractive? advice: dating john gray

You see her across the room. Your heart starts beating faster, your mouth gets a little dry, and then you...do nothing.

Why is it so difficult to talk to a woman you find attractive?

If you are a man who gets cold feet when trying to strike up a conversation, this post is for you!

In this video,...

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To Call or Not to Call? How to Ensure You’re Not Coming Across as Clingy. advice: dating advice: relationship lauren gray

I like you, therefore, I want to BE with you. Sounds simple, right?

And yet, it’s not.

Women want to be pursued, but we lose attraction when a man is “clingy.” When does pursuing a woman morph into chasing her away? When does the knight-in-shining-armor become that creepy guy...

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Is Adult ADHD the Culprit Behind Your Unfulfilling Relationships? advice: dating advice: relationship advice: wellness john gray

Have you ever felt like dating was more difficult than it should be or that you find yourself constantly unfulfilled in the relationships you have?

You may have an adult form of ADHD [Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder]. This is nothing to be ashamed of. In fact, it’s a product of our...

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Get a Man to Open up and Connect in 4 Simple Steps advice: dating advice: relationship lauren gray

When he doesn’t open up and share, it feels like you’re trying to create intimacy with a brick wall.

It feels like you’re in a one-sided relationship.

Why is he so repressed?!!!

Whether you’re in a relationship and frustrated that your connection is suffering because...

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When Will I Find That Perfect Guy – My Soul Mate? advice: dating john gray

Are you single and looking for your soul mate? Maybe you’re beginning to feel like there’s no one out there for you.

Not true!

Although wading through the dating pool to find the one can be daunting, there are things you can do to make yourself more successful in doing so.

In this...

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15 First Date Tips for Guys (to Have Her Begging for a Second) advice: dating lauren gray

I get asked a lot for first date tips for guys. With so much misinformation out there and conflicting ideas about “what women want,” no wonder a guy might feel a little lost before a first date.

You may not know her yet or you may know her but not in *this* kind of context. What you...

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Why Men Pull Away After Sex (and What You Can Do About It!) advice: dating lauren gray

Everything was going great! You had sex and now? He’s acting distant, weird, and pulling away from the intimacy you had.

It can make you feel really insecure when this happens. “Does he like me? Does he not like me? Is he interested? Are we together? Will I ever see him again?...

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How a Woman Can Make the First Move with Confidence advice: dating lauren gray

"Great relationships are founded in friendship.” Yup. We’ve heard that before.

But what they fail to explain is how you’re supposed to elegantly cross over from one to the other!

It can be especially stressful for women because we’ve been told that making the first move...

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How to Avoid the Let's Just Be Friends Axe advice: dating lauren gray

One minute it’s all lovey-dovey and the next you’re demoted to being “just a friend.”

What happened?!

Believe it or not, this is more common than you think and it’s not at all the final word on the matter. There is hope for reconciliation and a return to love!

In...

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Is It Just Sex or Does He Genuinely Care for Me? advice: dating lauren gray

Are you wondering if you’re mistaking "sex" for "genuine feelings"? And maybe even feeling bad about your choices...

You’re in the right spot!

Sex should feel good. If it’s causing heartache, stress, confusion, or shame, it’s time to try a new approach.

In this post,...

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Why Men Run from Intimacy and Commitment advice: dating advice: relationship lauren gray

You took the next step in intimacy and commitment and now he’s disappeared, cooled off, or acting totally weird!

Why do men run away right when it gets good? And can you trust him after this?

Great questions. The good news is: I have answers and a path to peace of mind.

In this post,...

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6 Places to Find Your Future Girlfriend and How to Approach Her advice: dating lauren gray

It’s like as soon as you leave school, there’s no easy way to find a girlfriend!

Meeting women can be a challenge and creating a connection that leads to a relationship can feel nearly impossible.

But there is a way! There is a way to meet women, approach them, and follow through so...

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The Surprising Truth About Dating a Selfish Man (or a Series of Selfish Men) advice: dating lauren gray

There are plenty of fish in the sea. So why do you keep getting stuck with the selfish ones?!!

When you start feeling there are more narcissists than Prince Charmings in the pool, dating becomes more trouble than it’s worth.

So, I’m going to reveal a key perspective that will...

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