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Stumped at being dumped? The real reason you're single.

Dear Lauren,

My ex-girlfriend said that she did not love me nor was she attracted to me. But we were together for six months! She made the first move on our first date, she would always initiate PDA's: kissing, touching, even arousing me in cabs, restaurants, the park... She expressed interest in sex but we never went through with it. But tell me, how is it that you can get so close to someone physically and claim to have neither attraction nor feelings? I am still nursing my broken hea...

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How to get your ex back (a step-by-step guide)

Dear Lauren,

How can I reconcile withmy ex-boyfriendafterhe broke up with me? He dumped me after being together for 3 years. I’ve given him "space" for 2.5 days with no contact (no more begging or trying to change his mind). Now he sends me an email to see if I'm "ok." Do I respond or stick to some "30 day rule?" What type of contact is okay?

How do I win back my ex? And how long do I wait for him before I move on?

-Brooke


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Is it over? How to tell when it's time to put down a relationship.

Dear Lauren,

I am not sure whether I still love my boyfriend. We’ve been together for 4 years but have been apart for 2 years due to study. Now we are back together in the same area and I’m questioning my feelings. He’s very passionate for me but I keep complaining about the way he does everything: mama’s boy, too clean, obnoxious laugh… Does this mean the chemistry is not there anymore? We discussed this together and he says he will change but I feel it is to...

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How to avoid the "let's just be friends" axe

Dear Lauren,

I’ve been dating this guy for 4 months. Then he got very busy at work and after 6 weeks of spotty contact I told him my feelings were hurt. I emailed/texted him multiple times a day asking what had happened and when could we talk? He sent an angry email saying he was working14-hour days and couldn’t deal with this right now and that all he has to offer is friendship. Am I pathetic to hope he might want to be with me after things calm down? If he does, should I expec...

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Is breaking up the end?

Dear Lauren,
I am in a long distance relationship. Before he left we committed to spending our lives together. It was great! We emailed and web chatted everyday; we even planned my visit to see him. But the lack of communication grew day by day. After about a month, I ended it through a breakup letter expressing my hurt. I basically asked how anyone who truly loved me could exclude me like this and be this inconsiderate of my feelings? He called once but I missed it. Since then, he hasn’...



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