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Why men fight dirty in arguments (and how to take the high road to love!)

Dear Lauren,

I made a mistake-I yelled at my husband to the point that he retreated into his cave. I followed him in there and he said, “Leave me alone!” but I kept pushing. He said some really hurtful things like he doesn’t think our relationship is working and that he doesn’t want to have kids with me because he doesn’t think I’d be a good mother. I left him a note that I’d be back in two weeks and went to my parent’s house. I thought he nee...

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Head to head with my dad Q and A: The Mars and Venus perspectives

This week my dad (John Gray) and I teamed up with Zoosk to do some quick turn around Q and A.

No, I didn’t just make that crazy word up. If you don’t know about Zoosk, they are the #1 dating app with over 25 million members globally! WOW! You can check them out and learn more about their “behavioral matchmaking” HERE.

In addition to being a great company bringing couples together all over the world, they’ve also got an amazing Facebook community and this w...

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Now that we live together, we don't get along

Hello Lauren,

I have been living with my boyfriend for 3 months and we have been together for 2 years. Lately we’ve been bickering more often and our communication seems to shut down. He pulls away and I get sad. It’s hard when this happens because we used to never be like this. Yesterday he said he needed space from me. He said he's mad he needs to tell me where he is, and I expressed it makes me feel safe to know. I am scared he is pulling away. How can I handle this witho...

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How Long Should A Man Stay In His Cave?

Hi John-

I have been in a relationship with an amazing man for about 7 months now. He's 27 and I'm his FIRST serious gf.

I found it hard to believe at first because he's been such a wonderful bf to me and totally knows what he's doing. In the past few months, I've experienced him "caving" and perhaps "rubber-banding". I can usually tell when it starts and know the steps I need to take when it happens, such as giving him space, leaving him alone, ...

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My girl has pulled away, what does this mean?

Hi Lauren,

I started a new relationship 2 months ago. We’ve spent a large amount of time together in bliss and we both seemed to really enjoy the attachment. My girlfriend has recently had out of town family members come to visit and between me and them had little time for herself. Is it appropriate and healthy for the relationship if she indicates she needs time apart from the relationship to take care of herself? It also seems on other occasions when she wants to take time for herse...

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My guy has pulled away, what does this mean?

Dear Lauren,
My boyfriend and I have been together for three weeks. He was very attentive and called several times a day and we were inseparable. Recently, he called to tell me that he missed me and couldn’t wait to see me. However, when that night came, he decided that he just wanted to stay home and relax. He said he wasn’t mad but wanted me to let him be. All day I was thinking that it had something to do with me and with us. I keep wondering what it is that is bothering him so ...



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